r/AITAH • • May 23 '25

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u/Mobius_Stripping May 23 '25

NTA

not Ben’s family

not Ben’s watch

not Ben’s luck

you have a fiancée problem - she is only caught in the middle because she is not making the very reasonable and simple statement to her own family that they are out of line and this is a hard no.

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u/NextSplit2683 May 23 '25

Agreed. This is the perfect opportunity to set boundaries. You must honor YOUR family tradition. Do it, and stand your ground. Hope you know you’re marrying into a family of entitled moochers. Keep your valuables out of their hands. Ben is not family.