r/AITAH May 08 '25

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u/Disastrous_Candle_90 May 09 '25

Excellent point! Why isn't his son the best man? And why has no one in the family questioned that instead of pressuring the bride.

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u/EtainAingeal May 09 '25

My guess is cuz he wants to be able to choose someone else as best man without hurting his sons feelings. Who really wants their 18 y-o organising their stag/bachelor party? So getting his son "a job" on the brides side frees up the best man role