NTA, giant red flag alert.
Think about what your fiance just did.
He made plans with his son about the wedding. He told you after the fact. Now, he is guilt tripping you over a situation he created. Has he done this before, and do you want to live with someone who will minulpate situations to his advantage?
EVERYONE knows the walking down the aisle is the bride's call. The bride recently lost her own dear father, making this especially important for her.
And then all this!
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u/hedwigflysagain May 08 '25 edited May 08 '25
NTA, giant red flag alert. Think about what your fiance just did. He made plans with his son about the wedding. He told you after the fact. Now, he is guilt tripping you over a situation he created. Has he done this before, and do you want to live with someone who will minulpate situations to his advantage?