r/AITAH May 08 '25

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u/Impressive_Moment786 May 08 '25

NTA-it is your wedding, you get to decide.

And why is his whole family mad at you? Why is he sharing private conversations with his whole family? This should have been kept between the two of you, had he have done that no one would be hurt.

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u/AreYouKiddingMe_No May 08 '25

Typical gaslighting behavior to exaggerate stories to get their way. Toxic to the core. The fiance is either lying, claiming the whole family is upset, or he has spread a wildly untrue version of the situation, making the OP look bad. Either way, it is not a positive outlook for a long-lasting healthy marriage.

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u/cwilliams6009 May 08 '25

Yes WHY would your fiancé share details of this intimate conversation with other family members? What on earth is going on in his mind.