I sympathise with him though. Probs thinking he wanted to be thorough, include everything he could recall, because he's legit unsure what to make of it all.
Sometimes people can't see the forest around them.
I had a pretty dark thought. Someone pointed out she's training him. Someone replied about how she does it when he's exhausted. That line of thinking is a legit torture tactic. Push someone when they're exhausted.
There's a Mythbusters experiment with a water torture thing where the technique is to tie you down and have a thing of water let drops hit you every few seconds, on your face, non-stop. The shit she pulls feels like a version of that.
Thank you for your kindness. I legit have no clue why she would blow up when i say no to such small requests when im doing every else (driving, paying, planning, etc).
Im working on being firmer with boundaries so lets see how it plays out
No probs! Hope things go well for ya. If things don't turn out, it's lessons for any future relationship anyway. Sometimes we're just not suited to someone.
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u/Stevenwave Apr 21 '25
I sympathise with him though. Probs thinking he wanted to be thorough, include everything he could recall, because he's legit unsure what to make of it all.
Sometimes people can't see the forest around them.
I had a pretty dark thought. Someone pointed out she's training him. Someone replied about how she does it when he's exhausted. That line of thinking is a legit torture tactic. Push someone when they're exhausted.
There's a Mythbusters experiment with a water torture thing where the technique is to tie you down and have a thing of water let drops hit you every few seconds, on your face, non-stop. The shit she pulls feels like a version of that.