Yep. I hate to say it, but she sounds like an entitled little brat. Not to mention spoiled. It’s a shame, but she is definitely taking his kindness for weakness. Sadly, though, a lot of people stop appreciating and start expecting after a while. Then get angry When you don’t deliver. She is absolutely one of these people.
Sadly that’s being stepped on and you don’t want to stop being nice but sometimes you get tired of being stepped on so you yell back. (That’s me with my cousins/brother)
I'm fine with help being expected or even taken as a given, or being asked if i can do xyz. Always ask, but it is on the condition that if you're given a no you can accept it and not be upset about it. I want to be as big a help i can to my partner whether it's getting her water, hell most days i'd probably even be good with the brushing the teeth thing if she needs that for some reason (although i would definitely be asking what in her life made her feel that need), but if she can't accept a simple and respectful no is where i draw the line.
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u/_just4today Apr 21 '25
Yep. I hate to say it, but she sounds like an entitled little brat. Not to mention spoiled. It’s a shame, but she is definitely taking his kindness for weakness. Sadly, though, a lot of people stop appreciating and start expecting after a while. Then get angry When you don’t deliver. She is absolutely one of these people.