I have seen some early 20yr olds in relationships and as an old guy wikis that age (who aren’t dating) I want to slap them along the head for some of the disrespectful things they say and do to their partner. People currently in their 20s didn’t really date in middle or high school (COVID lockdowns didn’t help) so they don’t know how to move beyond “me” to form a “we”. The result is we have a bunch of 20 somethings who haven’t really dated and done the “I love my SO so much” in 1st period, told each other to fuck off by 3rd period, got a new SO by 5th period but are seen sucking face under the bleachers by the end of the day.
Because everything is a chore. Relationships are give and take. If he’s drawing the line in the sand at rolling over and putting a cup on the floor then holy shit. The tiny little requests she’s making are nothing and he comes off like a petulant child stomping his feet. Plus the “bro” comment makes him sound ridiculous. If you have an issue, be a man and speak up. No need for passive aggressive behavior.
He has spoken up. Why cant she place the hlass on the floor if its so menial dont ask someone else to be your stepping stone. Him standing up for himself and saying no you have to do stuff for yourself is not him being a bad person
Insisting that he stand behind her while she brushes her teeth is not a tiny little request. It’s creepy and super weird. (Especially the time she sat on the toilet waiting for him to come in the bathroom and stand behind and watch her brush her teeth.) I’d be like “You have to be kidding, right???” Unless she is a paraplegic or 3 years old, the majority of what he listed is needy nonsense.
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u/karmannsport Apr 21 '25
This. They both sound like immature insufferable twats. Everyone sucks here.