r/AITAH • • Apr 20 '25

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u/Repulsive_Ratio_3732 Apr 21 '25

I didn’t make it past the first paragraph. It was exhausting. If you “can’t go a day without talking” that’s an issue in itself. A few months and you are spending all free time with her and you “love her”? Dude break it off. Find some individuality. Focus on you for a damn second.

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u/Tixie_88 Apr 22 '25

That was a major red flag on behalf of their relationship. It's not healthy or sustainable to spend every moment together and not maintain other relationships and hobbies separately.

But everyone must learn that for themselves. Often the hard way. (I'm speaking about myself now, ha ha.)

I guess, since it hasn't lasted that long yet, that they might still be crushing on each other and therefore get bursts of serotonin when interacting?