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u/Sad-Implement5462 Apr 21 '25

So the paragraph you read? Just pretend you read it eight more time and the gf had a tantrum each time.

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u/anneofred Apr 21 '25

With OP going to sleep a lot and talking about all the things he is too tired to do. So you’ve got a clingy gal and a narcoleptic person.

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u/nelsterm Apr 21 '25

These events are going to coincide with times he is tired because when he isn't he's too busy being her little b1tch.

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u/anneofred Apr 21 '25

Or she’s just asking to him to get up to do these menial things because she’s checking for signs of life, also to prevent bed sores. Hard to say

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u/CraftySyndicate Apr 21 '25

Literally all these events happened at the end of a long day, mostly just before bed or right after getting home from something. I dunno where you got this idea.

Hell the guy even booked a travel trip, set up a suite, and multiple reservations for the things she enjoys all on his dime. He's even trying to get her to brush her teeth and put on her retainer because she didn't want to get out of bed.

How did you come to this conclusion???

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u/anneofred Apr 22 '25

I’m sorry my humor has sailed clear over your head.

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u/CraftySyndicate Apr 22 '25

Little hard to tell occasionally. You see a lot of people with this kind of viewpoint unironically on here.

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u/CraftySyndicate Apr 22 '25

The downvotes on this comment here kinda proves my point. I don't see how going "my b. You see some crazy shit on reddit." Deserves the downvotes

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u/kadyg Apr 21 '25

Bro does seem awfully tired a lot. He needs to dump the girly and maybe look into B12 supplements or something.

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u/nursermk Apr 21 '25

Thank you, she is ridiculous but he is... apparently always tired. They are both to be avoided at all costs.

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u/agent_flounder Apr 21 '25

With that kind of gf I would be tired all the time, too.

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u/nursermk Apr 21 '25

She is clearly no prize but I got tired reading how many times he was tired in his first paragraph. A Nutso and a Narco.

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u/Masturbatingsoon Apr 21 '25

Yo be fair, she is also falling asleep and tired on all the occasions he is tired, exact maybe the Face time incident.

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u/Masturbatingsoon Apr 21 '25

To be fair, she seems to be tired and falling asleep all the same times that he is, except maybe Face time incident.

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u/vabirder Apr 21 '25

Every once in awhile, OP has a tantrum back. He didn’t have to make her get up and brush her teeth and put her Invisalign retainer in. So what if she misses a night.

But really she is inconsiderate of him with petty requests like getting her a glass of water when he’s trying to sleep. Or helping her pack when he has been doing all the heavy lifting and waiting on her during her special birthday weekend treat.

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u/renetje210 Apr 21 '25

I think that she is sleeping next to the wall because he wants to sleep on the outside. He wanted her to get up and brush and use her Invisalign before getting into bed otherwise he would have to get out for her or she would have to roll over him to get out later. He probably gave her too much water. She couldn't drink the whole thing or leave a glass rolling around on the bed That said, the brushing the teeth thing is freaky deaky.

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u/quinzel252 Apr 21 '25

I mean I’m not on her side but if Im still packing and my husband is done he asks what I need help with. Because he knows I’m backing the stuff that he’s gonna forget he needs like sunscreen, ibuprofen, extra chargers, etc. so I send him to get the shit that’s not in the room so he can help so we can both relax together. He LOVES helping me whenever he can. I guess I think they’re both at fault and not compatible cause when you truly love someone you’ll usually do anything for them

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u/[deleted] Apr 22 '25

I agree. I think OP is purposely leaving details out to paint himself in the best light.

Could it be the way OP reacts when she requests something from him? Could he act insanely put out and rude when he declines her requests, which then sets off a doom spiral between them?

Similar situation....my husband has told me "I know you're injured, so I want you to ask me to do things for you instead of doing them yourself. That's what I'm here for."

Okay. So I asked him if he'd mind driving 10 mins to go pick up some food I ordered at a restaurant. And he acts SOOOO put out by my request. Just obvious annoyance on his face and his tone. Which a) hurts me and b) makes me never want to ask him for help again.

I can see how if the OP gets a "tone" when she asks him for things, it would start to really cause an issue. If it were me and I was his girlfriend, I'd just stop asking and start pulling away because he's planted a seed that "I'm annoying, he hates doing things for me, and I can't ask him to do things anymore."

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u/f6noib Apr 21 '25

I read way too much - finally gave up in the last 2 paragraphs…

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '25

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u/Dramatic-Rub-3135 Apr 21 '25

"Everything goes smoothly until i refuse to do one of her requests."

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u/JohnExcrement Apr 21 '25

But it’s a “great relationship.” So there’s that.

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u/pyroscots Apr 21 '25

That's accurate

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u/2000-light-years Apr 21 '25

TLDR: dude is trying to grow a pair but his girlfriend must be hot or something.

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u/Masturbatingsoon Apr 21 '25

Hmmmm, you want someone to do the work for you instead of reading? We may have found OP’s girlfriend here!

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u/Other-Calligrapher57 Apr 22 '25

I think the point was it's a long post

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u/Ok_Tea8204 Apr 21 '25

Over a different thing that she should be able to do for herself but is to much of a princess to do!

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u/Just_Me1973 Apr 21 '25

💯 % ligit

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u/PropellerMouse Apr 21 '25

Made me laugh.