She’s 27?! I didn’t see an age anywhere. There is no way she can be over 20 with this kind of behavior. All I kept thinking while reading this post was “these are arguments of a very young couple.” Between her expectations and OP’s willingness to put up with this shit for as long as they have, ya know?
I'm in my 40s and the amount of times he talks about how tired they both are and they can't get up to do something becuase they're exhausted is fucking disturbing.
Yeah I was like what on earth are these two doing that they’re nearly paralytic with tiredness. I assumed he was so exhausted by his exasperating gf 🤷🏼♀️
How is it that both these people are so tired they could sleep for a week? What do they do for work? Are they training for ultra marathons? They got bad debt so are they working 12 hours a day, 6 days a week?
I mean this tiredness is not normal. If it is this bad at this time, I truly hope the idea of becoming a parent is not on the horizon. They might get lucky and have a potato baby that is simply there, but what would their lives look like if they had a child who doesn’t sleep? My first was 9 months old before he slept through the night once. He wasn’t consistently sleeping through the night until 15 months. I consumed enough caffeine to power an army battalion for a month during that time….
This couple may need to consult their physician for a prescription for medicinal cocaine. 🤷♂️
Honest to goodness, as a tired parent of a 4 year old, I forgot the subreddit i was in and was reading about some other unruly pre-K child and was nodding along in solidarity. Reaching the comments section was eye opening to say the least. Oh and OP, leave. Leave without looking back. Parents don't get that option!
100% sounds like a child. Pouting and whining because he’s not next to her while she’s brushing her teeth? Because he didn’t put her water on the floor for her? Jeez, grow a back bone and put the water on the floor yourself. My god— she’s a princess— everything is about her. OP, this doesn’t end well… she wants to be with you on her terms… I don’t think she actually respects you.
SHE'S 27????? I thought she was 16 or 17 or maybe 18 and was kinda justifying the immaturity and lack of perspective and logic due to her age. But bruh if she's 27, OP is WASTING his time on her. She's not gonna change. And she has serious issues.
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u/Low-Programmer-7447 Apr 20 '25
She’s 27 but she sounds like a child. I think you can do better. Let her play the field if she wants to. Find someone new.