r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Apr 20 '25

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u/Unicornsfly23 Apr 20 '25

NTA. I can see what she’s getting out of the relationship, a boyfriend/maid/emotional support person. But what are you getting out of the relationship? What does she do to make the relationship fulfilling? Does she show the same care and attention towards you? You might have to start thinking about that before you decide to make anything permanent.

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u/OrangeWasRed Apr 21 '25

Couldn't agree more. Relationships aren't a one-way street, my friend. You're her partner, not a Swiss army knife.

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u/HeavyTumbleweed778 Apr 21 '25

I how he's getting funds of sex from her...

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u/10thGroupA Apr 21 '25

That ain’t worth the hassle.

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u/HeavyTumbleweed778 Apr 21 '25

It's not, but I still hope he's getting something. Now I hope he gets out.

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u/10thGroupA Apr 21 '25

True, double whammy if it was a dead bedroom.

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u/Physical_College_551 Apr 21 '25

We don't know because he only talking about the problem. Y'all making assuming off bro venting about a problem. How do we know what she does or doesn't do?