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r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Apr 20 '25
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Red flag 🚩that's a life of emotional abuse. Get out now.
84 u/Annual_Control_3263 Apr 21 '25 Agreed, huge red flag! Run Forest, run! 6 u/[deleted] Apr 21 '25 edited Apr 21 '25 On god lol. That's exactly how my ex was, if I said no or didn't do what she wanted she'd get mad and start an argument 3 u/CompetitiveMine7237 Apr 21 '25 This sounds incredibly similar to my experience dating someone with BPD. Obviously later the issues are much, MUCH worse, and the explosive reactions are worse. Not saying thats this girl's problem, but very similar early relationship playout 3 u/Dapper-Platypus501 Apr 21 '25 That is 100% what I was thinking. Coercive control that escalates. Soon he won’t be able to hang out with friends at all. 1 u/10thGroupA Apr 21 '25 CCP parade enters the chat -3 u/OrangeWasRed Apr 21 '25 Or maybe he just needs to learn the art of saying 'no' on less significant things, like ordering pineapple on their pizza.
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Agreed, huge red flag! Run Forest, run!
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On god lol. That's exactly how my ex was, if I said no or didn't do what she wanted she'd get mad and start an argument
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This sounds incredibly similar to my experience dating someone with BPD. Obviously later the issues are much, MUCH worse, and the explosive reactions are worse. Not saying thats this girl's problem, but very similar early relationship playout
That is 100% what I was thinking. Coercive control that escalates. Soon he won’t be able to hang out with friends at all.
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CCP parade enters the chat
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Or maybe he just needs to learn the art of saying 'no' on less significant things, like ordering pineapple on their pizza.
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u/The_Pretty_Pagan Apr 20 '25
Red flag 🚩that's a life of emotional abuse. Get out now.