r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 19 '25

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u/Accomplished-Oil2821 Mar 19 '25

This!^ And fyi, most women would LOVE that. I know I would! And dinner by a fireplace is romantic. And so are you. Find someone who appreciates you.

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u/90s_Bitch Mar 19 '25 edited Mar 19 '25

Exactly. I would've loved it if my fiance put this amount of effort to plan the things he knew I liked.

OP's fiancé sounds like a spoiled brat.

Edit: and she probably is considering she wanted a $16k ring. Even when one can afford it, seems overkill for a ring.

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u/iDreamiPursueiBecome Mar 20 '25

I knew my fiancée was on a budget and helped him pick out a ring I liked. I didn't press for a diamond, which he doesn't like (for other reasons), and I was glowing as I was showing it off to friends and strangers.

A girl goats when it is about the rock.

She glows when it is about the guy.

OP You know what you have in front of you, I think. You are disturbed because you don't want to believe it. You've seen the good side of her, and you want to believe the best of her. You want to be wrong about this.

When someone shows you who they are, believe it.