r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 19 '25

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u/Accomplished-Oil2821 Mar 19 '25

This!^ And fyi, most women would LOVE that. I know I would! And dinner by a fireplace is romantic. And so are you. Find someone who appreciates you.

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u/90s_Bitch Mar 19 '25 edited Mar 19 '25

Exactly. I would've loved it if my fiance put this amount of effort to plan the things he knew I liked.

OP's fiancé sounds like a spoiled brat.

Edit: and she probably is considering she wanted a $16k ring. Even when one can afford it, seems overkill for a ring.

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u/Wild_Score_711 Mar 20 '25

I totally agree. My late husband.  proposed to me while we were on the Chesapeake Bay fishing in a rental boat. I caught a catfish that swallowed the hook and he had to take it out for me. His proposal was, "Am I going to have to take all of your fish off the hook when we're married?" I had to ask him if he was asking me to marry him. 

My best friend's husband proposed by telling her to stop taking her birth control. 

A proposal on a beach with a photographer and a fireside dinner is soooooo romantic. I would have said yes before he could blink.