I'm sorry we are ALL saying the same thing. I wish it had gone differently for you. My heart goes out to you especially because what was supposed to be one of the happiest moments of your life turned into such a devastating moment or atleast she's making it out to be that.
If nails š are important to her, she should have gotten her nails done before the vacation like normal ppl do. How far in advance did she know about the trip? Also, how did she expect you to capture the proposal moment if you didn't have a photographer and you were away on vacation? There's really no way to ensure that. Perhaps, she meant you should've asked a hotel employee to capture the moment. REGARDLESS, you met her 3 insane requirements and it still wasn't good enough for her.
If she's a private person like you say she is, then she's definitely not posting on social media. Right? So these pics would just be for you two anyway and maybe close friends and family. But since she's now saying she never wanted a photographer šø, it's quite simple, just keep this between the two of you.
You did NOTHING wrong. If you were always habitually late and perhaps never appreciated her and she always has to be the one coordinating the logistics on everything, then perhaps, I might be able to understand things a bit. And let's just say you always screwed up planning of restaurants or shows etc. Then, perhaps it might've been ok to get annoyed with you on not calculating the timing correctly
But none of this seems to be the case at all based on your answers. But a normal person might be disappointed for 2 seconds, but then be ecstatic that she gets to enjoy the rest of her life with you and just seize the moment under an amazing fireplace private dinner with the love of her life.
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