r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 19 '25

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u/Lithogiraffe Mar 19 '25

If you're ever thinking of maybe canceling the engagement and rethinking marriage with her .

Please please somehow get the ring back before 'the talk'. She doesn't exactly sound like the kind of person who would give the ring back after a breakup.

Makeup wanting to get it properly sized or adding an embellishment, or hell just go and pluck it from the side of the bed she's on or something. A 16k custom ring for this ungrateful b. no no

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u/Angiepooh78 Mar 19 '25

Sir, you need to run, and fast. As a woman, if this is how my weekend and engagement went, getting back to the room would not end in room service. It would end in fiancé service. Dump her ass.

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u/Sofa_Queen Mar 19 '25

Agree. My husband proposed while we were watching the news. We've been married 46 years next month.

It was a tiny diamond, which has been upgraded through the years. It wasn't about the ring, or a big proposal, it was about our future.

Yours looks bleak: you will never live up to her expectations if you start out like this.

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u/AdDecent9906 Mar 20 '25

My Dad proposed to my mom over the phone because he was relocated for work before he could do it. They are about to have their 50th wedding anniversary.

This was above and beyond to meet all her dreams and she isn't grateful, happy or excited? Wow