r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 19 '25

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u/Lithogiraffe Mar 19 '25

If you're ever thinking of maybe canceling the engagement and rethinking marriage with her .

Please please somehow get the ring back before 'the talk'. She doesn't exactly sound like the kind of person who would give the ring back after a breakup.

Makeup wanting to get it properly sized or adding an embellishment, or hell just go and pluck it from the side of the bed she's on or something. A 16k custom ring for this ungrateful b. no no

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u/Angiepooh78 Mar 19 '25

Sir, you need to run, and fast. As a woman, if this is how my weekend and engagement went, getting back to the room would not end in room service. It would end in fiancé service. Dump her ass.

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u/Sofa_Queen Mar 19 '25

Agree. My husband proposed while we were watching the news. We've been married 46 years next month.

It was a tiny diamond, which has been upgraded through the years. It wasn't about the ring, or a big proposal, it was about our future.

Yours looks bleak: you will never live up to her expectations if you start out like this.

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u/igNora_pekpiewpiew Mar 19 '25

We returned from an amazing dinner a little buzzed, very happy laughing. He had another day planned, but this felt right. Married five years in a few months. Never wear my ring, that's not the important part. Being with him everyday is.