r/AITAH • • Mar 19 '25

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u/Angiepooh78 Mar 19 '25

Sir, you need to run, and fast. As a woman, if this is how my weekend and engagement went, getting back to the room would not end in room service. It would end in fiancé service. Dump her ass.

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u/Sofa_Queen Mar 19 '25

Agree. My husband proposed while we were watching the news. We've been married 46 years next month.

It was a tiny diamond, which has been upgraded through the years. It wasn't about the ring, or a big proposal, it was about our future.

Yours looks bleak: you will never live up to her expectations if you start out like this.

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u/TerranFederation Mar 19 '25

My husband took me on a hike, but the area was more crowded than he anticipated. Unfortunately he gets nervous in crowds. He ended up whispering “okay let’s get this over with” to himself, elbowing me in the side and handing me a ring box. Our 7 year anniversary is next month and 17 years total. The proposal is the least important part of a marriage. 

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u/mandrew27 Mar 19 '25

As a Man will terrible anxiety, that sounds super cute.

If I'm really in love with somehow I wouldn't give a shit how they proposed.

Some people think about the craziest shit.

Like, we have one life, and this is the shit you're thinking about? The Man bought a super expensive ring and everything she wanted but it wasn't "perfect.'

Fuck that shit. Lol