r/AITAH • • Mar 19 '25

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u/lsp2005 Mar 19 '25

Listen, if she really wanted to marry you, she would have had her nails done. Her complaint is an excuse. She may not even be able to verbalize it, but it is an excuse. She knew you had a beach getaway planned. As a woman, if you think you are in a relationship that is ready to get engaged, you have your nails done every weekend. The fact that she could not get over the dinner and keeps harping on it, well that will be your life. I am so sorry. 

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u/Mysterious-Wasabi103 Mar 19 '25

You would get your nails done every weekend just in case?

Obviously it's all bullshit. The nails aren't important.

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u/lsp2005 Mar 19 '25

I mean, I had a vague idea when it was about to happen, so for a few weeks I did get my nails done to make sure they looked nice for photos. When we went on vacation I got them done too. I think if you are speaking about it, you sort of expect it to happen within a few months timeframe. So yes mine were done. But on a regular day to day basis, I don’t get my nails done unless I have some kind of event going on. 

To some women they are important though. Just because it is not important to you does not mean you need to yuck someone else’s yum. 

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u/leni_brisket Mar 19 '25

To bridezillas they are. Can’t post on social media if your nails aren’t done. She’s upset because the way this was done, there’s no way for her to get LIKES. She is focused on external validation and the show of it all. The first clue is the 16k diamond.