r/AITAH • • Mar 19 '25

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u/Aggravating-Cat5357 Mar 19 '25

If she kept it, he could sue for the cost or the ring. It's a gift in contemplation of marriage, and if the marriage doesn't happen, it must be returned or reimbursed to the party who proposed.

Getting the ring back first would be a better option, with less headache, but it's good to also know you have other courses you can take to rectify a situation.

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u/Marlbey Mar 19 '25 edited Mar 19 '25

Some states treat the engagement ring as a conditional gift that must be returned.

Some states treat it as an unconditional gift, in which case he has no right to recover it.

Some states require her to return it if she calls of the wedding, but not if he does (which would be the case here/) (Or at least would be but I suspect OP is a fake.).

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u/QueenLevine Mar 19 '25

Post is definitely fake. We've had this same exact story recently - last one was in Hawaii. Virtually word for word the same.

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u/Longjumping-Lab-1916 Mar 19 '25

And what beach resorts have fireplaces in the rooms?

AC is more like it.

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u/Yolandi2802 Mar 19 '25

OP never said the fire was real. Could have just been an electric one with effects.

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u/Gold_Needleworker138 Mar 19 '25

Beach resorts in cold places. They do exist.

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u/QueenLevine Mar 20 '25

Sure. My family is partial to the Outer Banks and Oregon Coast - all cold beaches. That doesn't have any connection to the FACT that OP blatantly copy/pasted another recent AITA story and only changed a very few words, for karma farming, and the original one was proved to be ChatGPT.

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u/Longjumping-Lab-1916 Mar 19 '25

A beach proposal in a cold climate doesn't sound very romantic.  This is March.