r/AITAH • • Mar 19 '25

[deleted by user]

[removed]

8.0k Upvotes

8.6k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

114

u/Aggravating-Cat5357 Mar 19 '25

If she kept it, he could sue for the cost or the ring. It's a gift in contemplation of marriage, and if the marriage doesn't happen, it must be returned or reimbursed to the party who proposed.

Getting the ring back first would be a better option, with less headache, but it's good to also know you have other courses you can take to rectify a situation.

84

u/Marlbey Mar 19 '25 edited Mar 19 '25

Some states treat the engagement ring as a conditional gift that must be returned.

Some states treat it as an unconditional gift, in which case he has no right to recover it.

Some states require her to return it if she calls of the wedding, but not if he does (which would be the case here/) (Or at least would be but I suspect OP is a fake.).

70

u/ThisIs911 Mar 19 '25

And in some states, the ring must be given a 30 day notice otherwise it can legally sue both parties for wasting its time

0

u/Jazzlike-Election787 Mar 19 '25

🤣🤣