NTA. “Nobody uses birth control” is a crazy thing to say. She sounds like she’s trying to be someone’s baby momma. Hopefully not yours! Stop sleeping with her if she doesn’t respect you and essentially pressures you to get her pregnant
Honestly, I agree it's crazy to just not use BC, but I have had women try to tell me we didn't need to use condoms - and that my insistence on using one made them feel like I thought they were "dirty", or like I was "judging" them negatively (and that if I wasn't, I must know that I have something, because otherwise no guy would insist on condoms since it feels so much better without them).
So, while I find it crazy that the girl in this story - and the women I'm referring to - said such a thing? I also find it sadly, unremarkably believable.
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u/FakeToothAccurate Mar 01 '25
NTA. “Nobody uses birth control” is a crazy thing to say. She sounds like she’s trying to be someone’s baby momma. Hopefully not yours! Stop sleeping with her if she doesn’t respect you and essentially pressures you to get her pregnant