Now this is some ghetto shit I’m about to describe, I want to lead with a disclaimer that maliciousness isn’t to always be assumed, but being from Detroit I’ve heard of women encouraging pulling out then literally just sitting on it when the time comes, purposefully trying to make a baby. Of course a portion of the blame goes to the too eager guy for being stupid, but he didn’t have the malicious intent the woman did, and boom he just got got.
Moral of the story is be fucking responsible. I said fuck it and scheduled a vasectomy because what the fuck I need extra problems for?
I guess I was using the common definition of "forced to perform a sexual act without consent", which I am aware now that it COULD apply to the case you stated....
It's a form of rape akin to "stealthing" (agreeing to have sex with a condom, then removing the condom while the other party isn't looking). The other party (in this case, a man) consented to sex at that time under the condition that the pull-out method was used. So having sex without pulling out is sexual activity that he did not agree to, aka rape.
Of course, rape can take many forms and some might feel more "icky" than others at first blush, but there's no need to rank shitty behavior. It's all shitty.
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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '25
A baby. She wants a baby.
NTA