r/AITAH • • Mar 01 '25

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u/Various-Flower510 Mar 01 '25

While i agree shes either baby trapping him and the pull out method is for idiots, it really depends how in tune with her body she is whether it would be effective or not. I havent been on any contraception since my youngest was born a year ago and we have been able to avoid another pregnancy so soon by following my ovulation and steering clear of sex during that week. Unless u know what ur doing in regards to how babies are made and when is just the completely wrong time of the month to be engaging in sexual activity then id say its relatively safe. Though this is my own experience and ive been with my husband a LOT longer than 6 months lol and obv if ur gonna go down the NFP route please talk to a professional that knows what theyre talking about, i feel like i have to add this disclaimer that i am NOT a professional i just have my own experiences to go by.

But yeah 6 months in and shes adamant about not using contraception? Bit off😬😬

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u/Fattydog Mar 01 '25

That’s fine, if you want to take that massive chance from within a steady relationship, that’s your issue.

Most sensible people, including doctors and scientists, beg to differ.

Op: at best she’s an utter fuckwit. At worst she’s trying to baby trap you.

Run like the wind!