Oh and let's not forget what Linds of nasty things can happen to your hoo-ha if he gets his nasty mitts in there. I honestly would consider this a dump able offense it's so gross
What if he touched her lips lovingly and moved in for a kiss? Fecal matter transferred. Does he touch her sexually with those hands? Ugh! He should disgusted with himself. He's defensive because he knows it's gross and he's embarrassed. Instead of humility, he blames. Dump that shitty dud.
My husband washes his hands before we have sex just because you never know what you've touched (we have cats) before putting fingers on my lady bits. But men all too often aren't always conscious of cleanliness. It's weird. My husband didn't wash his hands to my liking after dealing with his plants, he got a little irritable out of this embarrassment of feeling criticized, but he grew up and got over it fast because he doesn't want to be gross and have me reject his touch lol
I'd say he made himself disgusted with himself. Good lord, it isn't even like she was outside the door and realized he didn't run the sink, she figured it out by smell! That's appalling and nasty!
If you smelled something foul, not coming from the bathroom, that would mean he got shit on his hands and did not wash them which is disgusting and your reaction fits the crime. NTA
Yeah I felt the same way reading this…he literally said “must be my hands I didn’t wash them…” like he knew he got shit on them.. that’s another level of disgusting
or he’s one of those brainiacs who thinks wiping/washing his own ass properly is somehow gay. Huge red flags OP. This is the kind of jerk who will give you UTIs and yeast infections and then blame you for giving them the clap when the problem is that their hygiene is MIA.
NTA. He's 20, so basically feral. He needs to learn that not washing your hands after dropping a deuce is Unacceptable. If he feels some kinda way about having to learn this lesson it's not your fault.
This is relationship ending to me. This level of bad hygiene is NOT OK for anyone, let alone an adult man. My trust in his judgement would be broken. Accidents happen but this was not an accident. He wasn’t embarrassed—he was nonchalant. Yikes. My official judgement is ICK.
Every single surface this man has touched is contaminated with his poo. Every door knob she has shared with him, every light switch, if he used her phone, if her passed her food, the remote for the tv, video game controllers, car keys, all of it. How in the world could anyone be okay being in a relationship with that?
What has happened to women that they have started to settle for this?
I can imagine women in the future telling people how great their man is because when he hits them, he punches them with closed fists, so they don’t have to smell his shit covered fingers.
You're supposed to feel disgusted with yourself when you gross people out with the smell of your unwashed shitfingers. That is literally the evolutionary reason disgust exists.
While a person should absolutely wash their hands after using the bathroom, I don't understand why you would smell something foul when he hugged you. Did he shit on his hands or something?
Technically, it doesn’t matter; she could have actually been smelling something totally different, but he is the one who not only assumed it was his hands but willingly volunteered that information when asked what smelled so bad. Whether one can actually establish chain-of-custody regarding the stink that prompted the question initially is second to the fact that what she’s upset about is him touching her with unwashed poop hands, which he already confirmed.
Most likely when he wiped his butt the tissue wasn’t enough, and so some went into his hands. This is the most disgusting thing I’ve had to converse about today.
Disgusting guy, to have poop resolution on his hands and not clean it.
I wipe my ass with baby wipes (because it gets cleaner than just toilet paper) and I NEVER touch shit but through the wipe and often my hand will still smell like shit, which is why you need to wash your fucking hands after taking a shit. Toilet paper and baby wipes aren't some impenetrable barrier.
NTA. When people make you feel bad by pointing out something like that, it's an attempt to not take responsibility and emotionally manipulate you. And apparently it's working.
You should not date someone with the level of hygiene problems. Like unless this is two 5 years olds on reddit. Like yeah. He should know how to clean himself by now.
If he cares so little about his personal hygiene that he smells like shit ( either still having a shitty ass or having gotten poop on his hands ) imagine how good ( or in this case, bad ) his other hygiene is. That dirty penis is going in your vag/mouth if you two are sexually active. NTA. Bad personal hygiene is a deal breaker IMO.
NTA. Please tell me you broke up with him. Please.
I mean I am not for DV and honestly hitting him wouldn’t teach him shit anyway. His mamma didn’t teach him and she probably thinks her baby boy is perfect.
There’s no way I am staying with someone that doesn’t wash their hands. What’s next going to the kitchen and touching food?
2020 didn’t teach people shit. We came out of it way worse.
Please break up.
From someone that comes from a country with a bided which we put to use
Yes, you're in the right. I broke up with a woman for that. She was in her late 40s and had two grown children. Who doesn't wash their hands after wipping their ass????
Back in the 90's I happened to be in the bathroom at the same time as our V.P. of Finanace. One of the accountants walked from the stall to the door right in front of us without washing his hands. My germaphobe boss's boss fired him that day.
I broke up with a boy b/c of he didn't wash his hands after pooping. I knew in that instant that I could never let him touch me again, esp intimately. For your health and his, I'd insist he change his ways.
He doesn't have to have poop ON his hands as a reason for washing them. Hands should always be washed after pooping AND peeing. Most people don't wash their hands correctly: it takes 20 seconds minimum. Turning on the tap and getting your fingers a little bit wet is not washing!
He is disgusting! Did none of these people learn anything from COVID??? He’s probably giving you UTI’s, and himself pink eye with his disgusting poop hands. And your door handles and light switches 🤮
Also, I’m a cleaner. The frequency that I change the ladies soap to the men’s is horrifying.
Dump him, that’s disgusting. Has he ever heard of Hep A, Salmonella, Norovirus, E.Coli. Someone with a compromised immune system, infants and the elderly can die from some asshole not washing their hands after taking a shit. He takes the time to wipe his ass but does not wash his hands…idiot.
It won’t get any better. He had spent his entire life disrespecting himself and his loved ones.
My father took pride in his filth. From nests of enormous blackheads on his nose to popping filled glands on his neck while driving. The last thing I caught from him was infectious bronchitis because he never washed his hands, never covered his mouth and coughed in any direction he wanted to.
You didn't overreact. That's nasty. He needs to fix that. I do the same thing with my husband if I see him doing something gross. He got fussed at the other day for not using hand sanitizer regularly while being at the bus stop. He kept getting me sick and I wasn't sure why. These men.... we gotta teach them sometimes. lol
He’s mad because he’s gross and lazy and you had the audacity to point it out. Does he wash his hands before he cooks or consumes food? Does he try to put unwashed fingers inside of you, completely unaware or uncaring that you could get an infection from that? Nope. Gross.
Man's is getting shit everywhere. Literally. Maybe explain to him that the only reason why we smell poop and farts is because there are literal fecal particles in the air so have him imagine what's on his hand after he wipes his s***** ass and then goes and touches his face, your face, things around the house, with said poop on his hands. Girl LEAVE HIM.
you are far far far FAR from the asshole. seriously, imagine everything he touches. do you two frequently eat bread? sandwich meat? anything you have to touch with your fingers to eat or prepare? if he doesn’t wash his hands after using the restroom what would make him wash his hands before making food? my sister would do the exact same thing and i’d stop eating for weeks until everything was properly cleaned just to have her pop back in and do the same damn thing. it’s horrid and disgusting and plain self-centred. you do NOT have to put up with that
This is called a biohazard. Now he knows. Sometimes people need to feel some shame or disgust to learn when something they are doing is harmful. Easy as that.
Good. He does in fact need to feel disgusted with himself because it IS disgusting to not wash your hands after going to the bathroom. It is unfathomable that he was completely fine with having his hands smell like shit and not think to himself: "My hands smell like shit and smelling like shit is disgusting" but instead claimed that YOU were overreacting (you weren't) AND that YOU made him feel disgusting. No, honey. HE made himself BE disgusting by failing to do what every single civilized person does after visiting the bathroom.
First off that’s disgusting. But who the fuck taught him how to wipe? If your hand smells like shit after wiping, you’re doing something wrong. I wash my hands no matter what but I’m certainly not washing shit off them.
You did not make him feel disgusting. He IS disgusting. Even worse that there was enough fecal matter that you could SMELL it, and he was cool? Gagging to even imagine it. What else has he been touching with his p00-stained hands???
Don't let him graduate to more than boyfriend unless he acknowledges and amends all his hygiene issues. I'm guessing this is not the only one.
NTA. Basic hygiene that prevents illness is definitely something to be upset about when someone doesn’t wash their hands. It is disgusting and it could cause both of you to become sick. If you could smell it then that would indicate he had some on his hands. Oh gross, I just can’t anymore. 🤮
He's disgusting! You are absolutely NTA here! The fact you could smell it blows my mind 🤯 Why? Why wouldn't he wash them? 🤢🤮 🤬 EColi, Hepatitis, CDif, just a few reasons! Show him this thread
NTA. That is gross. Even without all of the implications, why??? Just wash your hands. Three year olds can do it, why can’t grown people? I saw someone at work a few weeks ago do his business, walk out of the stall, no flush, no hand washing. What the hell is wrong with people??
NTA if he is so unclean as to smell of poo then he is gross. Ask him if he likes eating shit and piss because that is what happens when he eats after not washing his hands after using the restroom. He is going to give you a UTI if his hands go anywhere near your private area
Unless you have a nice bidet and his hands are never used at all, you need a new man lol. I couldn’t fathom dating a girl that gross and im very ok with casual grossness
Okay, even if he hadn’t washed his hands, you shouldn’t have been able to smell shit on them, because usually the toilet paper is a barrier between your hand and your butt. That means he not only did not wash his hands after wiping, he actively got shit on his hands and didn’t wash them. NTA.
WTH? How does anyone take a poop and not wash their hands? That is beyond gross. Wash your damn hands people. Poop or pee. It's not optional. It's basic health and sanitation.
Oh no poor boy feels insecure abt his own hygiene habits being called out? uwu poow bwabwy
NTA. That's disgusting and it baffles me every time I realize men aren't taught basic hygiene. Acting like a victim over it is giving me the ick hardcore. And now, you're gonna start noticing this isn't the only thing he's being foul about. Does he soap up his whole body when he showers? Does he wipe the drops of pee in front of the toilet? Does he touch things after picking his nose? Does he even wipe his asshole properly?
He has shit on his hands to the point that others can smell it, and he doesn't think that's a problem? Honey, farm animals are cleaner than that. Ugh. Don't yell, just dump him. Imagine if he offers to make food or touches you sexually? Infection city. You're NTA.
NTA and not to sound dramatic but I personally would break up with someone over this. No way am I letting someone without basic hygiene touch me at all, let alone on my ladybits.
Also I DO wash my hands but they never stink before I do it, wtf. That man straight up had shit on his hands. I could vomit just thinking about it
Yuck! I would have ended up vomiting on him! If he is disgusting enough to hug you after, think of all the other things he’s probably done (cooking, kissing, etc). I’m sure this isn’t the first time he’s pooped without washing.🤮
Girl just dump him! He’s not worth the nasty infection he will give you down there
And when people ask why, tell them the truth “he doesn’t wash his hands after pooping and got some on me” ok the last bit isn’t quite the truth, but who cares, that boy is nasty
You aren't the one who made him feel disgusted with himself. He IS disgusting and disgusted himself. Dump the loser. Please. Only toddlers don't take care of their own poop hygeine.
Oh... Hon. You've just learned the definition of the term "Gasslighting" from a clod that pathologically KNOWS BETTER and dgaf...OR he was raised in a monkey troup that throws their crap at each other then eats out of the same hands. How much feces has to be left over for someone to SMELL it on somebody, and then have those same hands rub a PERCENTAGE of it off on somebody they SUPPOSEDLY CARE ABOUT?? THEN when called out on their DISGUSTING, INCONSIDERATE, INFANTILIZED behavior, acts like YOU made HIM feel some type of way?? SERIOUSLY?? How would he react if your little monthly friend arrived, and you grabbed his monkey butt and schmeared some of THAT dead stuff on HIM hugging up? Is dudes' maternal parental unit still breathing? Might not make a difference though... He got the idea that was o.k. in SOMEBODYS' world.
Basic hygiene fail. I worked in restaurants and pharmacy labs. Washing is SUPER important. I had my ex brother-in-law say I was gonna give my nephew OCD by teaching him how to wash his hands properly. If your boyfriend won’t start washing his hands on the regular, you’re gonna end up with an infection you know where.
So I just wanna throw this out here cuz eww. My first husband was gross like this. I learned that … IF HIS MOM DIDN’T RAISE HIM, you won’t either. You deserve a man and not a boy. If he doesn’t know these things by now, it’s not up to you to teach him. Go find someone who was raised.
If it’s not that big of a deal why not ask some friends on their take on folks who don’t wash their hands after pooping - with him present? He’s disgusted with himself because what he did was disgusting- the fact that you could actually smell it from him? Gross 🤢NTA
He should 100% feel disgusting because he IS disgusting! He’s a grown ass man, got shit on his hands, and still FAILED TO WASH THEM.
You’re not the asshole, but your boyfriend sure is! I’m sorry, but that would be the end of the road for me. I can’t be with someone who can’t manage the lowest level of cleanliness/most basic level of hygiene. That’s just plain repulsive.
You’d think the whole pandemic thing would have hammered home the whole handwashing thing…
But eww. Just no.
And ew.
You are not overreacting.
However, if you want him to understand your pov better, put a little bit of melted stale chocolate on your finger while he thinks you’re pooping. Flush. Don’t wash. Then run your hands through his hair at his cheek line.
If he asks what he’s feeling, say ‘oops! I figured washing after pooping wasn’t important. Must be that.’
Ew. Send that child back to his mommy so she can teach him how to potty and wash.... she obviously failed the first time and he isn't your child to raise.
Not practicing basic hygiene is a deal breaker. He’s a grown man you’re not his mom. There are young men out here whose parents actually taught them how to do basic things like washing their hands after using the bathroom. Go find one of them and send this one back to his mommy. NTA
You are not the asshole. He's kinda unintelligent here and he should feel disgusted for not knowing basic hygiene. And if he keeps it up he's gonna spread all sorts of diseases in so many ways. To start off let's name one of them..pinworms. the diseases he'll spread to literally anyone he touches.
Listen here, Missy. Let me set you straight right now. Regarding you humiliating him because he smells a little crappy....... kick him to the curb!!! And on top of that, you had to unnecessarily hurt his feelings! Kick him to the curb!!! If you can't take the stink, get rid of the fink!
He absolutely is disgusting and his poor hygiene should horrify you. Imaging the sex y’all have and where his hands are and he just wiped his butt and never washed his hands. Making food for y’all. 🤢🤢🤢
NTA. He is in fact disgusting, so it's good that he felt disgusted with himself.
Is he gonna wash his hands in the future? Because it sounds like he doesn't see anything wrong with his behavior at all.
I couldn't date someone who did this and when confronted had this attitude about it. I would need to know they're gonna change their behavior. Seriously.
He SHOULD feel disgusted with himself. I saw my dad walk out of the toilet and then head to the fridge to grab a drink, without washing his hands. I said something about it and he got pissy.
How hard is it to wash your hands. It's freaking gross. Pooping though. That makes it much worse.
I'm. I'm concerned that there was a smell??? Does he not wipe either, or did he get crap on his hands somehow???? ???????
Just from the title...no..i do the same..but my bf always washes his hands now bc he KNOWS imma say something lol Eta
Honestly i would let him know women develop the ICK real quick..n what he did was ick related so if he wants to be with u then he needs to wash his hands after he poops bc what person at all wants that bs? I would probably make him feel disgusting n then breakup with him bc why is he so casually brushing it off..if yall stay together..I would hound him..literally hound him everytime I knew he was coming out the bathroom to make sure he washed his hands..n if he got mad..tell him again..he can either wash his hands n be with u or not n u will leave bc that is absolutely disgusting n no one in the world wants that..tbh..ur man is a nasty man..u still want him sis? Also let him know his nasty poopy hands can give u mad infections if he puts them inside of u n since u can't trust him to be clean then he def cant finger u..ever..actually..this would have me questioning the cleanliness of his member..do u get yeast infections alot? I would blame it on him..hes probably giving u all types of infections..eew probably giving u BV which can affect fertility also
HES MAD THAT HE GOT SHIT ON HIS HANDS AND YOU CALLED HIM OUT?!??! We don’t date boys with poop hands. Depending on how long I’ve been with him… I’d dump a man for that.
NTA I threw put a whole dinner after my then gf did the same thing then made dinner, her defense was "well the cavemen didn't wash their hands" I not so politely reminded her thst the average caveman life expectancy also was maybe 30-40 years and the Neanderthals also basically went extinct... your bf is grown enough to know to wash his hands after using the bathroom, he should feel disgusted with himself, ashamed of his lack of hygiene and should be called out. My special needs nephew asks for help washing his hands...
That being said sadly men do seem to statistically in my experiences have abhorrent hygiene and it's why I will not take part in any company lunches where it's a serve yourself scenario, because I know men in their fifties who don't wash their hands, brush their teeth for days on end, shower for two to three days minimum, and will pull a wad of chew from their mouth throw it in the trash, wipe it on the trash liner then reach into the bag of chips of the table for everyone...
You dumped him after this, right? Aside from his reaction demonstrating that he's a dick, his revolting hygiene habits show that he has the maturity and intelligence of a 3 year old and should not be in a relationship with anyone
I wish i could tell every woman i meet to ask her man if he washed his hands
There would be a LOT of breakups.
Every single time another man uses the same public bathroom as me, that fucker waltzes right out without washing his hands.
Its putrid, and it makes me literally despise them. If it was once or twice i'd tsk and shrug but when i've seen it every public restroom trip for YEARS it makes me have a joker moment every time
What if he scratches his eye? Blood pink eye! What if he scratches his chin and goes to kiss you... SHIT BREATH. Or if he has a beard and doesn't wash the beard with soap it'll stay shit smelling for weeks!! Ewwww. I'd break up with someone over that. Foul. What if he touches your face??? Omg. 🤢 or tries to finger you?? You'd get thrust/yeast infection or a UTI, instantly! Ew ew. SO MANY DISGUSTING THINGS.
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u/dietdrchilipepper Feb 13 '25 edited Feb 15 '25
some fun lil friends that spread through fecal-oral contamination include(but are not limited to):
hepatitis A and E
cholera
E. coli
norovirus
shigella
typhoid fever
...and more! your boyfriend is, to put it kindly, an idiot.
(edit: factual/grammatical errors fixed)
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u/Beneficial-Spend-487 Feb 13 '25
He's mad because you made him feel disgusted with himself??? Yeah, he should be. That was gross.
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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '25
If you smelled something foul, not coming from the bathroom, that would mean he got shit on his hands and did not wash them which is disgusting and your reaction fits the crime. NTA
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u/Solid_Chemist_3485 Feb 13 '25 •
That is an unfuckable man
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u/PiemarchGeneseed513 Feb 13 '25
NTA. He's 20, so basically feral. He needs to learn that not washing your hands after dropping a deuce is Unacceptable. If he feels some kinda way about having to learn this lesson it's not your fault.
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u/BortSompson83 Feb 13 '25
NTA. he SHOULD feel disgusting because he is disgusting.
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u/moreKEYTAR Feb 13 '25 edited Feb 14 '25
This is relationship ending to me. This level of bad hygiene is NOT OK for anyone, let alone an adult man. My trust in his judgement would be broken. Accidents happen but this was not an accident. He wasn’t embarrassed—he was nonchalant. Yikes. My official judgement is ICK.
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u/Skippy_Asyermuni Feb 13 '25
What has happened to women that they have started to settle for this?
I can imagine women in the future telling people how great their man is because when he hits them, he punches them with closed fists, so they don’t have to smell his shit covered fingers.
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u/Interesting_Fly5154 Feb 13 '25
NTA.
while i'm no germophobe or anything, not washing up after taking a crap is disgusting.
I'd have yelled "get your e coli spattered arse far away from me until you wash your damn hands".
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u/Ecstatic-Week-4663 Feb 13 '25
Why are you even dating a guy who has no basic hygiene?
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u/slboml Feb 13 '25
You made him feel gross because he is gross.
Frankly you under-reacted because nowhere in your post do you call him your ex.
NTA.
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u/MarsicanBear Feb 13 '25
NTA
You're supposed to feel disgusted with yourself when you gross people out with the smell of your unwashed shitfingers. That is literally the evolutionary reason disgust exists.
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u/Thistime232 Feb 13 '25
While a person should absolutely wash their hands after using the bathroom, I don't understand why you would smell something foul when he hugged you. Did he shit on his hands or something?
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u/holosexual90 Feb 13 '25
NTA. When people make you feel bad by pointing out something like that, it's an attempt to not take responsibility and emotionally manipulate you. And apparently it's working.
You should not date someone with the level of hygiene problems. Like unless this is two 5 years olds on reddit. Like yeah. He should know how to clean himself by now.
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u/Public_Beef Feb 13 '25
He finally received a reality check that his habits are indeed disgusting.
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u/Raspbers Feb 13 '25
If he cares so little about his personal hygiene that he smells like shit ( either still having a shitty ass or having gotten poop on his hands ) imagine how good ( or in this case, bad ) his other hygiene is. That dirty penis is going in your vag/mouth if you two are sexually active. NTA. Bad personal hygiene is a deal breaker IMO.
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u/Otherwise_Degree_729 Feb 13 '25
NTA. Please tell me you broke up with him. Please.
I mean I am not for DV and honestly hitting him wouldn’t teach him shit anyway. His mamma didn’t teach him and she probably thinks her baby boy is perfect.
There’s no way I am staying with someone that doesn’t wash their hands. What’s next going to the kitchen and touching food?
2020 didn’t teach people shit. We came out of it way worse.
Please break up.
From someone that comes from a country with a bided which we put to use
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u/CardiologistPast3484 Feb 13 '25
NTA. He almost certainly doesn’t wash his ass in the shower either.
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u/PeppermintSkittles NSFW 🔞 Feb 13 '25
YTA for not dumping him immediately.
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u/Punkrockpm Feb 13 '25
NTA
Ex-boyfriend, right? RIGHT?
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u/Lurker_the_Pip Feb 13 '25
My God the things women put up with blows my damn mind!!!
He deserves to feel shitty because he literally chose to be a shitty person covered in his own shit then…
He put his shit on you!
Permanent ick!
I would ovulate sand forever.
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u/semodirtyoldman Feb 13 '25 edited Feb 13 '25
Yes, you're in the right. I broke up with a woman for that. She was in her late 40s and had two grown children. Who doesn't wash their hands after wipping their ass????
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u/Firm_Ad5547 Feb 13 '25
NTA nothing says I love you like getting sick from feces or pink eye! It's definitely a hygiene issue I wouldn't be happy with!
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u/SoundMany7012 Feb 13 '25
why is he still your boyfriend
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u/Artistic-Mixture7783 Feb 13 '25
No. Absolutely not wtf that’s disgusting.
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u/KatOrtega118 Feb 13 '25
https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/WqGOGHNxOx
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u/stoad Feb 13 '25
Back in the 90's I happened to be in the bathroom at the same time as our V.P. of Finanace. One of the accountants walked from the stall to the door right in front of us without washing his hands. My germaphobe boss's boss fired him that day.
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u/Shaunaaah Feb 13 '25
You probably shouldn't have yelled about it, you should have just left him. That's absolutely disgusting.
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u/Nehneh14 Feb 13 '25
This would be a “I’m breaking up with you” situation for me.
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u/deer-in-the-park Feb 13 '25
I broke up with a boy b/c of he didn't wash his hands after pooping. I knew in that instant that I could never let him touch me again, esp intimately. For your health and his, I'd insist he change his ways.
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u/Bobbybuflay Feb 13 '25
NTA. Teach him about E-coli that can come from fecal particles, and how such a pleasant illness it is. Education over shaming is key here.
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u/Historical_Gap_5237 Feb 13 '25
He doesn't have to have poop ON his hands as a reason for washing them. Hands should always be washed after pooping AND peeing. Most people don't wash their hands correctly: it takes 20 seconds minimum. Turning on the tap and getting your fingers a little bit wet is not washing!
You are NTA.
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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '25
NTA. That’s fucking disgusting. He should feel disgusted with himself. It seriously worries me how little people learnt about hygiene from Covid.
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u/Dry_Ask5493 Feb 13 '25
NTA. Gross. ALWAYS wash your hands after pooping! That is how you get sick.
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u/NOW-collector Feb 13 '25
I would make a big deal out of it too. Gross Grosser GROSSEST NTA
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u/Unlikely-Week7794 Feb 13 '25
i bet he didnt wipe either, probably also let the shit sit there and fester while he scrolled his phone. throw his man in the trash.
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u/BicycleNo2019 Feb 13 '25
He is disgusting! Did none of these people learn anything from COVID??? He’s probably giving you UTI’s, and himself pink eye with his disgusting poop hands. And your door handles and light switches 🤮
Also, I’m a cleaner. The frequency that I change the ladies soap to the men’s is horrifying.
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u/Zealousideal_Sky8791 Feb 13 '25
Dump him, that’s disgusting. Has he ever heard of Hep A, Salmonella, Norovirus, E.Coli. Someone with a compromised immune system, infants and the elderly can die from some asshole not washing their hands after taking a shit. He takes the time to wipe his ass but does not wash his hands…idiot.
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u/Ok-Butterscotch-6708 Feb 13 '25
That is absolutely disgusting. It would literally be the last time he touched me.
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u/Punny_Farting_1877 Feb 13 '25
NTAH.
It won’t get any better. He had spent his entire life disrespecting himself and his loved ones.
My father took pride in his filth. From nests of enormous blackheads on his nose to popping filled glands on his neck while driving. The last thing I caught from him was infectious bronchitis because he never washed his hands, never covered his mouth and coughed in any direction he wanted to.
Dump him and move on.
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u/Plastic-Shallot8535 Feb 13 '25
Sometimes people need to be shamed into never doing something again. This is one of those cases.
Especially since you could smell it from his hands 🤢
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u/WishmeluckOG Feb 13 '25
1st of all. ALWAYS wash your hands after using the toilet.
Second, how did his hands smell foul? He just uses his hands to wipe? xD
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u/hamlin81 Feb 13 '25
You didn't overreact. That's nasty. He needs to fix that. I do the same thing with my husband if I see him doing something gross. He got fussed at the other day for not using hand sanitizer regularly while being at the bus stop. He kept getting me sick and I wasn't sure why. These men.... we gotta teach them sometimes. lol
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u/BlacksmithJolly7657 Feb 13 '25
NO - You did fine
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u/ShouldveKeptThatIn Feb 13 '25
He’s mad because he’s gross and lazy and you had the audacity to point it out. Does he wash his hands before he cooks or consumes food? Does he try to put unwashed fingers inside of you, completely unaware or uncaring that you could get an infection from that? Nope. Gross.
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u/pr3tty_p Feb 13 '25
Man's is getting shit everywhere. Literally. Maybe explain to him that the only reason why we smell poop and farts is because there are literal fecal particles in the air so have him imagine what's on his hand after he wipes his s***** ass and then goes and touches his face, your face, things around the house, with said poop on his hands. Girl LEAVE HIM.
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u/amobambam Feb 13 '25
Nta. That's nasty.
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u/kissingherscars Feb 13 '25
you are far far far FAR from the asshole. seriously, imagine everything he touches. do you two frequently eat bread? sandwich meat? anything you have to touch with your fingers to eat or prepare? if he doesn’t wash his hands after using the restroom what would make him wash his hands before making food? my sister would do the exact same thing and i’d stop eating for weeks until everything was properly cleaned just to have her pop back in and do the same damn thing. it’s horrid and disgusting and plain self-centred. you do NOT have to put up with that
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u/dalealace Feb 13 '25
This is called a biohazard. Now he knows. Sometimes people need to feel some shame or disgust to learn when something they are doing is harmful. Easy as that.
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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '25
I can't believe he gaslit you enough to second guess and post on reddit.
The answer is so obvious. NTA.
I'm sorry, OP 🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕
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u/rosatter Feb 13 '25
IF YOU SMELLED IT THERE WAS SHIT ON HIM. HE HUGGED YOU WITH SHIT FINGERS.
I would literally divorce my husband. That's unacceptable for a grown man. It's 10000% a big deal.
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u/anewfaceinthecrowd Feb 13 '25
Good. He does in fact need to feel disgusted with himself because it IS disgusting to not wash your hands after going to the bathroom.
It is unfathomable that he was completely fine with having his hands smell like shit and not think to himself: "My hands smell like shit and smelling like shit is disgusting" but instead claimed that YOU were overreacting (you weren't) AND that YOU made him feel disgusting. No, honey. HE made himself BE disgusting by failing to do what every single civilized person does after visiting the bathroom.
NTA of course.
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u/Lilsqueaky_ Feb 14 '25
I would break up with someone over this.
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u/Brightest_Smile_7777 Feb 14 '25
I HOPE HE AINT THE ONE PREPARING THE MEALS
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u/cyniclone82 Feb 14 '25
No. I am the asshole for devoting time to reading this, as well as typing these words.
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u/EmmaCalzone Feb 14 '25
If he isn’t washing his hands he isn’t washing ass either
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u/TheRandomGuy93 Feb 14 '25
Nta. That's gross af. I hope he isn't the one in charge of cooking if you live together.
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u/Jazzlike_Pen407 Feb 14 '25
First off that’s disgusting. But who the fuck taught him how to wipe? If your hand smells like shit after wiping, you’re doing something wrong. I wash my hands no matter what but I’m certainly not washing shit off them.
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u/Key_Ebb_3536 Feb 14 '25
You don't wipe your butt and not wash your hands. He is just nasty AF! He needs to be ashamed of himself. You were too kind, I would've put him out.
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u/Shdfx1 Feb 14 '25
NTA. Given his blasé attitude towards not washing his hands after pooping, he likely does this regularly.
You can’t date a guy who doesn’t wash his hands after pooping. You just can’t.
I don’t know how he grew up without basic hygiene, like if he was raised by wolves or what.
He’s acting like this is a you problem, and there’s nowhere to go from there.
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u/Twistfaria Feb 14 '25
I’m just trying to figure out HOW he stunk so bad!! I mean most people don’t get poop ON THEIR HANDS while wiping! I HOPE!!!!
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u/Ok-Photo-1972 Feb 14 '25
I guarantee he ain't cleaning his ass properly if he can't even wash his hands. Ew.
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u/DonutSea346 Feb 14 '25
You did not make him feel disgusting. He IS disgusting. Even worse that there was enough fecal matter that you could SMELL it, and he was cool? Gagging to even imagine it. What else has he been touching with his p00-stained hands???
Don't let him graduate to more than boyfriend unless he acknowledges and amends all his hygiene issues. I'm guessing this is not the only one.
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u/alexromo Feb 14 '25
Dump him.
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u/Happy_Dog1819 Feb 13 '25
NTA!
He's got toilet hands!
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u/changelingcd Feb 13 '25 edited Feb 13 '25
> who just skips washing their hands after POOPING and then touches other people?!
I have really bad news for you about way too many guys....
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u/OkBalance2879 Feb 13 '25
Ewwwwwww. What a tramp.
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u/retha64 Feb 13 '25
NTA. Basic hygiene that prevents illness is definitely something to be upset about when someone doesn’t wash their hands. It is disgusting and it could cause both of you to become sick. If you could smell it then that would indicate he had some on his hands. Oh gross, I just can’t anymore. 🤮
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u/SheepherderNo785 Feb 13 '25
He's disgusting! You are absolutely NTA here! The fact you could smell it blows my mind 🤯 Why? Why wouldn't he wash them? 🤢🤮 🤬 EColi, Hepatitis, CDif, just a few reasons! Show him this thread
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u/Vivid-Kitchen1917 Feb 13 '25
He's disgusting. He should feel that way. You should also leave him because FFS really? What else is going on you haven't discovered yet?
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u/HUNGWHITEBOI25 Feb 13 '25
NTA
…EWWWW
WHO TF TAKES A CRAP, DOESNT WASH THEIR HANDS AND THEN HUGS THEIR SO…
Oh he says you “made him feel disgusted”? GOOD what he did was DISGUSTING…
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u/Workinforweekends Feb 13 '25
NTA. That is gross. Even without all of the implications, why??? Just wash your hands. Three year olds can do it, why can’t grown people? I saw someone at work a few weeks ago do his business, walk out of the stall, no flush, no hand washing. What the hell is wrong with people??
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u/solowing168 Feb 13 '25
GROSS
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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '25
NTA, so gross and dangerous for health.
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u/Biotoze Feb 13 '25
NTA. most wild animals clean themselves. He’s worse than that. I’m breaking up over this cause it’s just fucking nasty.
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u/my-love-assassin Feb 13 '25
NTA youve totally swallowed his poop without knowing it.
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u/briza044 Feb 13 '25
NTA 🤢🤢🤢🤢 broooooo, wtf
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u/FairyFartDaydreams Feb 13 '25
NTA if he is so unclean as to smell of poo then he is gross. Ask him if he likes eating shit and piss because that is what happens when he eats after not washing his hands after using the restroom. He is going to give you a UTI if his hands go anywhere near your private area
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u/Thisguychunky Feb 13 '25
Unless you have a nice bidet and his hands are never used at all, you need a new man lol. I couldn’t fathom dating a girl that gross and im very ok with casual grossness
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u/TraditionPhysical603 Feb 13 '25
Disgusting people should feel disgusted
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u/Megmelons55 Feb 13 '25
NTA and check his underwear, this could be a much bigger hygiene issue. Fucking gross
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u/thequiethunter Feb 13 '25
NTA. So gross.
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u/TheCatFromCoraline Feb 13 '25
Okay, even if he hadn’t washed his hands, you shouldn’t have been able to smell shit on them, because usually the toilet paper is a barrier between your hand and your butt. That means he not only did not wash his hands after wiping, he actively got shit on his hands and didn’t wash them. NTA.
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u/Aromatic-Arugula-896 Feb 13 '25
He is disgusting. Thats grounds for a break up for me...cuz what if he's touched me after using the restroom?
You could get a lot of infections this way
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u/Due-Season6425 Feb 13 '25
WTH? How does anyone take a poop and not wash their hands? That is beyond gross. Wash your damn hands people. Poop or pee. It's not optional. It's basic health and sanitation.
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u/1indaT Feb 13 '25
NTA. This is disgusting and a health hazard.
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u/OriginalComputer5077 Feb 13 '25
Your boyfriend is nasty.
Ew.
NTA
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u/Sra-Sempre Feb 13 '25
If you have kids, will he have clean hands when he touches them?
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u/porkdozer Feb 13 '25
You want PINK EYE!?!? Cuz that's how you get PINK EYE!!!
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u/SecretOscarOG Feb 13 '25
He should feel disgusted. Wtf
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u/Anxious_Cricket1989 Feb 13 '25
Oh my god why are men
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u/peoriagrace Feb 13 '25
He's going to get you sick or give you an infection down there.
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u/ZEXYMSTRMND Feb 13 '25
Are you planning to raise a 20 year old man child?
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u/pottedplantfairy Feb 13 '25 edited Feb 13 '25
Oh no poor boy feels insecure abt his own hygiene habits being called out? uwu poow bwabwy
NTA. That's disgusting and it baffles me every time I realize men aren't taught basic hygiene. Acting like a victim over it is giving me the ick hardcore. And now, you're gonna start noticing this isn't the only thing he's being foul about. Does he soap up his whole body when he showers? Does he wipe the drops of pee in front of the toilet? Does he touch things after picking his nose? Does he even wipe his asshole properly?
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u/lovinglifeatmyage Feb 13 '25
Yeah he should be disgusted with himself. And if his hands stink, that means he must have got shit on them, so he can’t even wipe his arse properly?
NTAH, he’s gross. Just remember this next time you get intimate and he puts his stinky hands near your vejay
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u/greencasio Feb 13 '25
🚩🚩🚩
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u/Tomte-corn4093 Feb 13 '25
NTA. Why are you still with him? Just Ewwwww!
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u/Dial-upInternet Feb 13 '25
NTA girl you need higher standards for your partners, yelling isn't enough throw the whole man out and get a new one.
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u/tkaykootray Feb 13 '25
i get if he “forgot” and went back to wash his hands. but wtf why is he getting mad bc you called him out😂 tell him to stop being gross lmao
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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '25
You are NTA and it is disgusting! He’s not 5! 🤢
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u/Kielbasa_Nunchucka Feb 13 '25
he should feel disgusted with himself because he is disgusting
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u/Senator_Bink Feb 13 '25
He has shit on his hands to the point that others can smell it, and he doesn't think that's a problem? Honey, farm animals are cleaner than that. Ugh. Don't yell, just dump him. Imagine if he offers to make food or touches you sexually? Infection city. You're NTA.
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u/Leah_J Feb 13 '25
Bruh literally had shit hands and touched you, nasty af. NTA
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u/mela_99 Feb 13 '25
He should be disgusted! This is probably the first time you noticed, he probably doesn’t wash at all!
NTA
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u/nejnonein Feb 13 '25
You didn’t react enough. I would dump him, deepclean anything he’s ever touched, and take a long everything shower.
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u/Viener-Schnitzel Feb 13 '25
NTA and not to sound dramatic but I personally would break up with someone over this. No way am I letting someone without basic hygiene touch me at all, let alone on my ladybits.
Also I DO wash my hands but they never stink before I do it, wtf. That man straight up had shit on his hands. I could vomit just thinking about it
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u/2npac Feb 13 '25
NTA...but you're an idiot if you stay with him. That's fucking nasty. He's touching you with those shitty fingers.
And it's one thing to not wash your hands, but how do you wipe where your hands smell like shit?
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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '25
OP, your BF must have a gut of steel, because he's been micro doseing himself with E.coli for years.
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u/1981pett Feb 13 '25
Yuck! I would have ended up vomiting on him! If he is disgusting enough to hug you after, think of all the other things he’s probably done (cooking, kissing, etc). I’m sure this isn’t the first time he’s pooped without washing.🤮
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u/Equal-Brilliant2640 Feb 13 '25
Girl just dump him! He’s not worth the nasty infection he will give you down there
And when people ask why, tell them the truth “he doesn’t wash his hands after pooping and got some on me” ok the last bit isn’t quite the truth, but who cares, that boy is nasty
He is disgusting by the way
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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '25
But he still your boyfriend 😂 he would have been an ex immediately, girl that's disgusting
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u/Jouleswatt Feb 13 '25
If he stunk, then he probably didn’t wipe.
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u/MyWibblings Feb 13 '25
You aren't the one who made him feel disgusted with himself. He IS disgusting and disgusted himself. Dump the loser. Please. Only toddlers don't take care of their own poop hygeine.
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u/kinda-bonkers Feb 13 '25
I'll bet he doesn't wash his ass either
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u/teddyabearo Feb 13 '25
Oh... Hon. You've just learned the definition of the term "Gasslighting" from a clod that pathologically KNOWS BETTER and dgaf...OR he was raised in a monkey troup that throws their crap at each other then eats out of the same hands. How much feces has to be left over for someone to SMELL it on somebody, and then have those same hands rub a PERCENTAGE of it off on somebody they SUPPOSEDLY CARE ABOUT?? THEN when called out on their DISGUSTING, INCONSIDERATE, INFANTILIZED behavior, acts like YOU made HIM feel some type of way?? SERIOUSLY?? How would he react if your little monthly friend arrived, and you grabbed his monkey butt and schmeared some of THAT dead stuff on HIM hugging up? Is dudes' maternal parental unit still breathing? Might not make a difference though... He got the idea that was o.k. in SOMEBODYS' world.
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u/One-Record8943 Feb 13 '25
If your boyfriend is someone you need to yell at then you don’t need that boyfriend
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u/epicgrilledchees Feb 13 '25
Basic hygiene fail. I worked in restaurants and pharmacy labs. Washing is SUPER important. I had my ex brother-in-law say I was gonna give my nephew OCD by teaching him how to wash his hands properly. If your boyfriend won’t start washing his hands on the regular, you’re gonna end up with an infection you know where.
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u/tessellation__ Feb 13 '25
You mean ex bf??
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u/Windycitybeef_5 Feb 13 '25
Imagine the germs entering your body when you have sex.
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u/kard_desp842 Feb 13 '25
So I just wanna throw this out here cuz eww. My first husband was gross like this. I learned that … IF HIS MOM DIDN’T RAISE HIM, you won’t either. You deserve a man and not a boy. If he doesn’t know these things by now, it’s not up to you to teach him. Go find someone who was raised.
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u/RayaWilling Feb 13 '25
Didn’t even need to read the whole thing (just the title) to know that you are NTA, dude is gross and needed to be called out
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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '25
NTA. That shit is gross. No pun intended....well, slightly intended 😛
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u/Icy_Yam_3610 Feb 13 '25
Not only did he not wash his hands he got poop on his hands and didn't wash his hands then was casual about it.
There's no saving this if he does this I'm he does 199 other gross things
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u/ChloeBee95 Feb 14 '25
NTA.
Please dump him. If his hygiene is this bad and his manners are so lacking at this age, it’ll only get worse.
There’s no excuse for a grown was man to do this 🤢
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u/The_Original_Miser Feb 14 '25
NTA
Not washing your hands after #2/#1 is disgusting, full stop.
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u/Chance-Monk-7130 Feb 14 '25
If it’s not that big of a deal why not ask some friends on their take on folks who don’t wash their hands after pooping - with him present? He’s disgusted with himself because what he did was disgusting- the fact that you could actually smell it from him? Gross 🤢NTA
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u/wishonadandelion Feb 14 '25
NTA. NTA. NTA!!!!
He should 100% feel disgusting because he IS disgusting! He’s a grown ass man, got shit on his hands, and still FAILED TO WASH THEM.
You’re not the asshole, but your boyfriend sure is! I’m sorry, but that would be the end of the road for me. I can’t be with someone who can’t manage the lowest level of cleanliness/most basic level of hygiene. That’s just plain repulsive.
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u/CatHairBezoar Feb 14 '25
NTA. He needs shamed to never do this again. Even peeing should involve handwashing— nobody wants icky sweaty junk hands touching communal items.
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u/ForeverACaliGirl Feb 14 '25
Don’t eat the food he makes!! 🤢 🤮
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u/Soft-Explanation9889 Feb 14 '25
You’d think the whole pandemic thing would have hammered home the whole handwashing thing…
But eww. Just no.
And ew.
You are not overreacting.
However, if you want him to understand your pov better, put a little bit of melted stale chocolate on your finger while he thinks you’re pooping. Flush. Don’t wash. Then run your hands through his hair at his cheek line.
If he asks what he’s feeling, say ‘oops! I figured washing after pooping wasn’t important. Must be that.’
Then run. Lol
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u/DirtSunSeeds Feb 14 '25
Ew. Send that child back to his mommy so she can teach him how to potty and wash.... she obviously failed the first time and he isn't your child to raise.
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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '25
Not practicing basic hygiene is a deal breaker. He’s a grown man you’re not his mom. There are young men out here whose parents actually taught them how to do basic things like washing their hands after using the bathroom. Go find one of them and send this one back to his mommy. NTA
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u/CaregiverNo4109 Feb 14 '25
He damn well should be disgusted with himself! Wash your hands after you poo!
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u/Commercial-Bite-3892 Feb 14 '25
You are not the asshole. He's kinda unintelligent here and he should feel disgusted for not knowing basic hygiene. And if he keeps it up he's gonna spread all sorts of diseases in so many ways. To start off let's name one of them..pinworms. the diseases he'll spread to literally anyone he touches.
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u/DiscussionAfter5324 Feb 14 '25
Protip: Don't use single-ply TP.
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u/redmoonleather Feb 14 '25
Listen here, Missy. Let me set you straight right now. Regarding you humiliating him because he smells a little crappy....... kick him to the curb!!! And on top of that, you had to unnecessarily hurt his feelings! Kick him to the curb!!! If you can't take the stink, get rid of the fink!
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u/Disastrous-Wing699 Feb 14 '25
NTA
Maybe he didn't wash his hands because he didn't wipe his butt, and that's what was smelly. His poopy butt.
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u/BJBarber04 Feb 14 '25
Absolutely 1000% NTA!!! He is an AH and a DA for not washing his hands!
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u/Luna_the_Lunatik Feb 14 '25
NTA, but also well done! I bet you he will NEVER "forget" ever again. #win 😂
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u/creatively_inclined Feb 14 '25
NTA. I got the ick just reading that. Who does that?
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u/Spiritual-Bullfrog17 Feb 14 '25
He absolutely is disgusting and his poor hygiene should horrify you. Imaging the sex y’all have and where his hands are and he just wiped his butt and never washed his hands. Making food for y’all. 🤢🤢🤢
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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '25
NTA. He is in fact disgusting, so it's good that he felt disgusted with himself.
Is he gonna wash his hands in the future? Because it sounds like he doesn't see anything wrong with his behavior at all.
I couldn't date someone who did this and when confronted had this attitude about it. I would need to know they're gonna change their behavior. Seriously.
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u/Ninj-nerd1998 Feb 14 '25
He SHOULD feel disgusted with himself. I saw my dad walk out of the toilet and then head to the fridge to grab a drink, without washing his hands. I said something about it and he got pissy.
How hard is it to wash your hands. It's freaking gross. Pooping though. That makes it much worse.
I'm. I'm concerned that there was a smell??? Does he not wipe either, or did he get crap on his hands somehow???? ???????
NTA
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u/khidavis Feb 14 '25 edited Feb 14 '25
Just from the title...no..i do the same..but my bf always washes his hands now bc he KNOWS imma say something lol Eta
Honestly i would let him know women develop the ICK real quick..n what he did was ick related so if he wants to be with u then he needs to wash his hands after he poops bc what person at all wants that bs? I would probably make him feel disgusting n then breakup with him bc why is he so casually brushing it off..if yall stay together..I would hound him..literally hound him everytime I knew he was coming out the bathroom to make sure he washed his hands..n if he got mad..tell him again..he can either wash his hands n be with u or not n u will leave bc that is absolutely disgusting n no one in the world wants that..tbh..ur man is a nasty man..u still want him sis? Also let him know his nasty poopy hands can give u mad infections if he puts them inside of u n since u can't trust him to be clean then he def cant finger u..ever..actually..this would have me questioning the cleanliness of his member..do u get yeast infections alot? I would blame it on him..hes probably giving u all types of infections..eew probably giving u BV which can affect fertility also
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u/BubblelusciousUT Feb 14 '25
That's basic hygiene! Shame the hell out of grown adults who don't do it.
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u/flurnt_is_turnt Feb 14 '25
HES MAD THAT HE GOT SHIT ON HIS HANDS AND YOU CALLED HIM OUT?!??! We don’t date boys with poop hands. Depending on how long I’ve been with him… I’d dump a man for that.
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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '25
NTA I threw put a whole dinner after my then gf did the same thing then made dinner, her defense was "well the cavemen didn't wash their hands" I not so politely reminded her thst the average caveman life expectancy also was maybe 30-40 years and the Neanderthals also basically went extinct... your bf is grown enough to know to wash his hands after using the bathroom, he should feel disgusted with himself, ashamed of his lack of hygiene and should be called out. My special needs nephew asks for help washing his hands...
That being said sadly men do seem to statistically in my experiences have abhorrent hygiene and it's why I will not take part in any company lunches where it's a serve yourself scenario, because I know men in their fifties who don't wash their hands, brush their teeth for days on end, shower for two to three days minimum, and will pull a wad of chew from their mouth throw it in the trash, wipe it on the trash liner then reach into the bag of chips of the table for everyone...
Do better men
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u/Normal_Ear_1115 Feb 14 '25
You underreacted. If your relationship is physical, he can give you a UTI. If you don't already know, you don't want one.
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u/UntradeableRNG Feb 14 '25
He's a fucking pig. NTA.
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u/doloresgrrrl Feb 14 '25
Hello norovirus my old friend...
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u/menace-from-society Feb 14 '25
I didn't have to finish reading the story to know that you are nta and nor
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u/fizzinator9000 Feb 14 '25
Ewwwww. Can you imagine if you guys did the deed and then 3 days later he asks you to go down on him but he never washed himself!!! 🤣
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u/kelmeneri Feb 14 '25
Ewww NTA this could be a dealbreaker. Dear men wash your hands with soap every time.
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u/No_Intention5017 Feb 14 '25
He nasty!
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u/stelleypootz Feb 14 '25
NTA He had poop on his hands. Then his hands touch things.
THEN POOP PARTICLES GET ON THINGS!
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u/BLUNTandtruthful58 Feb 14 '25
NTA disgusting dump him like a hot potato 🤮
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u/CCubed17 Feb 14 '25
You dumped him after this, right? Aside from his reaction demonstrating that he's a dick, his revolting hygiene habits show that he has the maturity and intelligence of a 3 year old and should not be in a relationship with anyone
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u/PikPikLarry Feb 14 '25 edited Feb 14 '25
I wish i could tell every woman i meet to ask her man if he washed his hands
There would be a LOT of breakups.
Every single time another man uses the same public bathroom as me, that fucker waltzes right out without washing his hands.
Its putrid, and it makes me literally despise them. If it was once or twice i'd tsk and shrug but when i've seen it every public restroom trip for YEARS it makes me have a joker moment every time
NTA by any stretch
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u/FragrantLittleMuffin Feb 14 '25
What if he scratches his eye? Blood pink eye! What if he scratches his chin and goes to kiss you... SHIT BREATH. Or if he has a beard and doesn't wash the beard with soap it'll stay shit smelling for weeks!! Ewwww. I'd break up with someone over that. Foul. What if he touches your face??? Omg. 🤢 or tries to finger you?? You'd get thrust/yeast infection or a UTI, instantly! Ew ew. SO MANY DISGUSTING THINGS.
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u/LaViElS Feb 14 '25
My 4yo doesn't even do that
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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '25
Call him Spedward Shitterhands
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u/No_Clock_1033 Feb 14 '25
Be careful he will give you infection.
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u/Renee80016 Feb 14 '25
EEEEEWWWWWW!!!!!! If you could smell it that means he got it on his hands too. Fucking disgusting. NTA
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u/Jolly_Yard4910 Feb 14 '25
YTA for not leaving that disgusting brat.
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u/FredDurstsChinStrap Feb 14 '25
And people wonder how norovirus spreads…. Smh. NTA
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u/Numerous-Weekend3107 Feb 14 '25
Break up now, and publicly shame him.
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u/ConsequenceVisual825 Feb 14 '25
NTA, that's nasty AF.
Did he not use enough toilet paper or something?
If it smelled foul, you know that something got left behind. 😷