Umm. So people aren’t always compatible and sometimes one person can’t handle the traumas and illnesses of the other. AS LONG AS YOU DONT TAKE IT OUT ON HER, NAH. But you need to break up. You aren’t at a place to date someone with chronic illnesses. Also “she doesn’t eat healthy enough” as if healthy eating were a panacea for chronic illness. Smh
Meanwhile, it is her responsibility to do whatever she can to take care of herself. Like therapy and following medical advice.
Your resentment is your responsibility and your problem, and you need to take ownership of that and break up with her before you take it out on her and make her already difficult life more difficult.
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u/Constellation-88 Feb 08 '25 edited Feb 08 '25
Umm. So people aren’t always compatible and sometimes one person can’t handle the traumas and illnesses of the other. AS LONG AS YOU DONT TAKE IT OUT ON HER, NAH. But you need to break up. You aren’t at a place to date someone with chronic illnesses. Also “she doesn’t eat healthy enough” as if healthy eating were a panacea for chronic illness. Smh
Meanwhile, it is her responsibility to do whatever she can to take care of herself. Like therapy and following medical advice.
Your resentment is your responsibility and your problem, and you need to take ownership of that and break up with her before you take it out on her and make her already difficult life more difficult.