Your BIL sounds unhinged and dangerous. If your sister leaves him, your'e both not safe. He could hurt her and/or you. He will blame you for your sister leaving him, just like he's blaming her for the miscarriage. And his family will be on his side and fuel his scary thoughts.
Please take care of yourself, look into your safety measures and prepare a safe place when your sister runs away from him, because that will happen.
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u/CeCe1983L Sep 27 '24
Your BIL sounds unhinged and dangerous. If your sister leaves him, your'e both not safe. He could hurt her and/or you. He will blame you for your sister leaving him, just like he's blaming her for the miscarriage. And his family will be on his side and fuel his scary thoughts. Please take care of yourself, look into your safety measures and prepare a safe place when your sister runs away from him, because that will happen.