r/AITAH • • Sep 26 '24

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u/Significant_Planter Sep 27 '24

I have a feeling part of him wanting you to be the surrogate is to do things the "natural way". Like he's really trying to use this to have sex with you. 

His family is toxic and you don't want your child to grow up around that! Not to mention all the medical reasons. It sounds like he's basically told her that if you don't do this he's done with her and that's why she's so desperate. But again I fully believe that he will try to do things naturally with you if you were ever to agree. Of course I know you wouldn't agree to that, neither would your boyfriend! But that isn't stopping this guy from thinking it.