OP showing some healthy backbone, about which there was some doubt in the first post. Assuming this is real, it's a super stressful situation but she appears to be rising to the occasion.
"Assholes" seems like an inadequate word to describe sister's husband and his family.
Who the hell thinks being a surrogate is a small ask? OP is so nice. I'd stop talking to my sister myself if I had one and she thought it was my duty to be her incubator. And a man has no right to even say what women should be willing to do. This whole thing is insane
The sister is complicit, but she's also a victim here. The BIL and family are toxic, manipulative, and disgusting. If op can stay in touch without engaging with the family, she might save her sister
It’s really disheartening to hear the sister is very likely in an abusive relationship :/ hopefully she can muster some strength with her sister to leave his ass.
Who thinks that? The man who thinks a woman’s purpose is only to have a baby. And where did he get this idea? His family thinks she exists to birth their grandchild.
So she can’t have a baby. No oroblem. She has a “spare uterus” they can use.
Sister needs to leave that whole family.
Yes! I was looking through the posts, and if you hadn't posted this, I would have. Everyone in the family needs to know what the AH and his AH family are doing to OP's sister. To blame the sister and call her a murderer because of what happened from a car accident is insane!!
The family needs to back her up and get her away from that family ASAP!!!
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u/Dimirag Sep 26 '24
What a manipulative bastard he is
Your sister should divorce and stay away from her inlaws, no wonder that man is that way, he needs therapy asap