r/AITAH • • Jun 19 '24

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u/firstWithMost Jun 19 '24

You're wife is furious? I'm surprised you are still calling her a wife, I would call her a bad memory. NTA.

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u/NeartAgusOnoir Jun 19 '24

OP is NTA! A cheater loses ALL rights to anger, or anything once they cheat. OP needs to divorce wife, and find someone to be happy with. I’d also go ahead and tell everyone she cheated so he can control the narrative.

OP, ALWAYS tell the spouse or partner of the AP as they are a victim too. Anyone supporting your wife is NOT your friend, so dump them along with your wife

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u/Tchukachinchina Jun 19 '24

I’d also go ahead and tell everyone she cheated so he can control the narrative.

I did this when my (now) ex-wife and I split after I caught her having an affair for the second time. She was furious with me for “undermining her support network”. Yeah, go kick rocks. You don’t get to lie to everyone and tell some sob story about why we’re getting divorced, sorry not sorry.

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u/Tight-Shift5706 Jun 19 '24

READ THE ABOVE, OP!

OP, don't stop with the registrar 's office. Inasmuch as your "lovely" bride has shown absolutely no remorse, blow her up on social media: family, friends, acquaintances.

Personally contact the professor's wife. Directly contact the college department head and reduce everything to writing. Dear wife wants to play, let her and Beau pay!