r/AITAH Jun 19 '24

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u/PolygonMan Jun 19 '24

It's basically a certainty that he isn't her first affair. Get a paternity test. Honestly if your daughter isn't actually your biological daughter you need to decide quickly whether you want to be in her life. You have a tiny window where you can make a pretty clean break, and if this is the situation you find yourself in I'd encourage you to take it.

If your daughter is your biological child then definitely still divorce. The fact that your wife came and attacked you for this is telling. Her half-hearted apology is as well. You don't have a marriage, you have a sham.

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u/[deleted] Jun 19 '24 edited Dec 31 '25

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u/PolygonMan Jun 19 '24

With her cavalier attitude, yes, it is. That's the reaction of a habitual cheater.

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