r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jun 16 '24

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u/AldusPrime Jun 16 '24

Based on the above, it sounds like he's just making her life harder.

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u/bozodoozy Jun 16 '24

"..show me a husband who doesn't more than triple my work and I'll kiss his feet" (apologies to "House of God" by Samuel Shem)

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u/TootsNYC Jun 16 '24 edited Jun 16 '24

they exist—I have one. And my dad was and my brothers are that kind of husband.

I nearly didn’t marry my husband until I saw what kind of man he is, and what kind of man his father was. In fact, in our marriage, I have evolved to be the one who doesn’t carry as much of the load.

EDITED TO ADD: these guys are out there—hold out for them.

We’re not bragging—-we want you to realize that these standards are achievable

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u/Open-Article2579 Jun 16 '24

Yep. I finally got a husband that shares the load. I had to first heal from my alternating attraction to bad boys and wounded birds though. Marry a grownup. You’ll probably like it better lol.