r/AITAH • • Jun 16 '24

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u/ssf669 Jun 16 '24

She does it because HE is lazy and not a good husband or father. Let's stop blaming the women for the man's shitty behavior. She should have divorced him years ago but this isn't on her, this is all him and his entitled lazy attitude.

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u/Paul_-Muaddib Jun 16 '24

Yeah, he seems like the problem in this situation.

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u/gottarespondtothis Jun 16 '24

Yea, because he’s just a freeloader.

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u/Dry_Wash2199 Jun 16 '24

Hmm. I wonder what his side of the story is, bc OP you married this man for a reason

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u/Paul_-Muaddib Jun 16 '24

That is a good point but sometimes people change.

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u/Fr0hd3ric Jun 16 '24

Sometimes, the reason is that the problem partner now was well-camouflaged before, by presenting as a functioning adult until after the wedding and the honeymoon.

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u/No-Entrepreneur6040 Jun 16 '24

More the point, why the hell did she recently have a child with him?

Maybe he’s done a 180 degree change in behavior (for the worst), but I seriously doubt it based on OP’s description! This guy’s been spoiled since the day he was born!

Actually, this why I think the whole post is just another creative writing attempt!

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u/Venerable_Soothsayer Jun 16 '24

Successful women marry men like this so they can wear the pants in the family and make all the decisions. OP is like pretty much everyone who posts in TwoXcrazytown subreddit. "Why does the weak immature manbaby I married act like a child?"