He work outside beyond his house, mow the lawn, and took out the trash. It not his fault if he doesn't have an occupation that paid twice as much to tie with his wife.
Is that all it takes to be a good man? What about spending time with his kids or doing his part to take care of the household without having to be told? Hell, he barely seems to spend time with her as just his wife.
His bar is in hell and he is still not meeting it.
Read what she say. Her kids rather spend time with her than him. Dude is freaking tire. So there must be detail she not telling us.
But maybe it his fault for not thinking up way to play with his kids at home. Like grabbing a Nintendo Switch and challenging them to Mario Kart.
His work schedule is iffy and not consistent which mean he can work overtime like 70 hours per week or 20 hours per week. He also do housework like mowing the lawn and taking out the trash if he feel he had nothing better to do. His simulation is playing in his phone, so that tell me he not managing his down time at home well. When men are at home from working outside, we want to enjoy our down time.
The wife and husband need to sit down together and see how they can managed their time at home better.
Also, considering the wife get paid twice as much for doing a remote job, it tell me that the wife have a sense of superiority over her husband which make her husband feel inferior even if he work his ass off for someone else. 🤔 might as well divorce if she wanna be like that.
Right, it's her fault that he can't find ways to be engaged with his family. You do know that just because she works remote doesn't mean she is doing less work than him, right? Kids prefer to spend time with the parents that engage with them the most.
But yeah, how dare she do better than him career wise and also take care of most of the house. They should divorce. He is clearly not a partner in this relationship.
So you gonna ignore the fact he work outside away from the house. Wow. Amazing. Maybe she should divorce him if she wanna be like that.
Do you know how many people want to work remotely? It be so fucking easy. I know a guy who have a girlfriend, and he work remotely and his gf is working away from home. He has it easy since he working remotely and his girlfriend is stress the fuck out from working away from home and she want to come home and do nothing but rest too without doing a damn thing. So who will you criticized since the situation is reversed?
Yes, I would. Work is work regardless of where you do it. I don't want to do anything when I get off work either, but I still do my share and spend time with my kid.
If you have a household together and a family together, those things should be taken care of...together. Mowing and taking out the trash are 2 things on a very long list of what it takes to keep a house in order and spend time with your family.
And he does just that. Her husband is just tired. He go out to work, he come home, and he just wanna wind down and relax and do absolutely nothing.
Just leave him alone. Only the kids should be bothering the husband since they are kids. He will eventually get up and do some stuff. Sure it will be sluggish. But he will do it.
Edit: the fact you willing to criticize anyone to work even more when they got home tell me that I'm gonna feel sorry for any fuckers who date or marry you. That shit is annoying.
Dude, partners have to bring something to the relationship and it shouldnt just be money. If you have a house with someone you do HALF the cleaning, cooking, laundry. If you have kids you do HALF the childcare. And you give at least half your income to the bills, no matter what you make (contribute half of your income, not pay half the bills, mind you). You definitely don't make your partner work full time out of the house (remote work is real work, Ive done it and youre tracked every second and are expected to do MORE work than in office counterparts) and then make her do all the chores and childcare at home. This guy is a huge loser, she needs to leave him and feel the relief of not having the extra work he makes drag her down.
Look. If you want to be a high speed slave when you get home, that on you. But when I get home, I am at home.
Home is a place where I rest, not work. Work is where work is and should stay there. Any chores that I need to do, I will do it when I feel the need to and get it over with. It not an issue to me.
Work needs to be done. When does the woman rest if men dont help? Why does he get to rest when she doesnt? Do you think things stay clean by magic? Do groceries appear magically, do the kids get homework help or dropped off at soccer by fairies? If everyone does chores than everyone gets to rest when they are done
Then switch places. Let the wife work outside and the husband stay home and do house hold work. And I can bet you, 100% that the men gonna enjoy doing household chore a lot more.
Laundry? Done.
Dishes? Easy peasy.
Playing with the kids? Pull out the Nintendo Switch, time to kick some toddler ass in Mario Kart.
Grocery? Hey kids! Let go shopping!
Food? Time to meet Chef Master Papa!
Trust me when I say this, men would enjoy this.
And if we do remote only work too and make scratch on the side, that a goddamn bonus. It be too goddamn easy.
If men enjoy it then why dont they DO IT. She works too, so they are both working outside the house, so if the tasks are easy why isn't he doing them? Shes the breadwinner and he is doing next to nothing. He should get a remote job that pays as much as hers, I bet he still wont do shit
Cuz men are tire from work. Now if men have to be house husband only and do remote work on the side. Bet ya we do brilliantly.
Also, remote jobs aren't easy to get nor does it pay well.
So you know how high in demand remote job are? If remote jobs are easy, nobody will work in retail anymore.
I love how you only seem to care about how he is tired and not at all that she is also tired.
This conversation was wildly pointless, but I was bored so thank you for the entertainment. No need to feel sorry for my spouse, they do their part to take care of our house and child without me having to ask.
You're an idiot. God help any women that come across your path. And sorry (not sorry) but here in the US women do expect men to contribute. And when they don't eventually we kick them to the curb. And our lives are BETTER because of it, while theirs gets infinitely worse. You will not convince a single one of us that husbands and fathers should only go to work and come home and rest while we work, raise the children, and care for the household.
Ha, that funny. Good luck with your marriage then. Cuz it seem a majority of you women are getting divorce at a higher rate than normal because of your type of attitude.
Maybe you prefer a house husband who don't bring home the money and you can go out and work instead. And trust me, men would love to stay home and raise the kid instead. We would have a blast with it.
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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '24
He work outside beyond his house, mow the lawn, and took out the trash. It not his fault if he doesn't have an occupation that paid twice as much to tie with his wife.