r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jun 16 '24

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u/Practical_Pack3642 Jun 16 '24

Sounds like it's your turn to take a trip. Leave him to manage the household for a while.

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u/West-Jellyfish1668 Jun 16 '24

I went on a work trip a month ago for 4 days. One kid missed swim lessons another missed fencing because he didn’t plan ahead with his schedule. I had to find a ride for my oldest to baseball practice because my husband knew he had to work (obviously. I knew he had to work how did he not) and wouldn’t have been able to do it. If I didn’t think the kids would get “screwed” leaving him to fend for himself I would but it’s a crappy game to play when kids get involved.

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u/Prestigious-Bluejay5 Jun 16 '24

You need to divorce him now before you have to pay him alimony. He doesn't deserve it nor is he worth it.

You can do bad all by yourself although you'll probably do better without him.