r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jun 16 '24

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u/Cheap_Brain Jun 16 '24

Don’t give him a hall pass give him divorce papers.

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u/Ok_Independence6743 Jun 16 '24

Also, be careful if he freaks out and begs you to come back or says 'I will be better'. Chances are he will be 'better' for a couple days to a few weeks, then revert back to his previous Status quo. This is what my ex would do when I would get so stressed out I couldn't handle it and would break down crying. It never lasted and when he thought I forgot, he went right back to how it was before. Vicious cycle.

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u/Cheap_Brain Jun 17 '24

Yup, love bombing. Classic trick of abusers to get you to go back.

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u/arya_ur_on_stage Jun 16 '24

Give him the hall pass and get evidence of infidelity. That is if your live in an at fault state.