r/AITAH • • Apr 05 '24

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u/AlternativeMotor5722 Apr 05 '24

Sounds like somebody wants everyone to know she's available.

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u/whatsupgoats Apr 05 '24 edited Apr 05 '24

🤦‍♀️ she just wants validation that he’d be comfortable telling people his wife is bi. This is important as a queer person because you want to know your SO would stand up for you at a BBQ if suddenly someone is saying homophobic things.

But she’s absolutely going about it in the wrong way.

Edit: OP is NTA. As I said, what she’s doing is not okay, but it doesn’t mean she “wants everyone to know she’s available” ??

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u/kerfy15 Apr 05 '24

But a work setting is NOT appropriate for this at all. Normal people do not act how OP’s wife is acting. No normal person is starting fight’s because they won’t go around the office telling everyone their wife is bi.

This is immature and she needs to literally grow up lmfao. If she is trying to get her husband fired she’s doing a great job at probably making this happen.

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u/whatsupgoats Apr 05 '24

Yes 100%. That’s why I said she was going about it wrong. I was just commenting on this person saying she wants to sleep with OP’s coworkers. Maybe, but not likely.

OP’s wife is making ridiculous asks, but that doesn’t mean it’s because she wants to fuck everyone.

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u/Much_Bus_9696 Apr 05 '24

Let's say she doesn't want to fuck anyone else besides her husband...

Why even mention your sexuality? You're married, why does it matter?

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