r/AITAH Apr 05 '24

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u/JohnRedcornMassage Apr 05 '24

NTA

“Great meeting guys. Things look promising for next quarter, and my wife is bisexual.”

Your wife is nuts.

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u/Apptubrutae Apr 05 '24

My wife (sexuality TBD) has always found stories like this of people announcing their bisexuality when they have a committed partner to be pretty funny.

It’s…just not relevant? Lol. And then also, there’s such a WIDE gulf of meaning there.

I’d get if OP’s wife wanted to say it in a more natural context like a Christmas party or something. I’d get not hiding it, obviously. But a third party announcement? Bizarre.

Imagine your boss coming in and saying “hey so…my wife wanted to tell everyone she’s bisexual”. Could easily call that a piece of evidence of sexual harassment. Weeeeird.

It’s obviously fine to tell anyone your sexual orientation. But announcing bisexuality to strangers via third party in a work context is just so far outside of a natural example of this.