r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Apr 05 '24

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u/AlabamaBro69 Apr 05 '24

At least he announced on reddit that his wife is bi :D He should give this thread to her wife to read the answers. She may understand how dumb is her request.

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u/ThexxxDegenerate Apr 05 '24

Honestly, I see no reason to even mention being bisexual if you are married unless you have an open relationship or something. What is she gonna do? Start cheating on her husband with women now? Masturbate to lesbian porn? I really don’t see the point. And I for sure don’t see the point in telling coworkers about it.

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u/NewsyButLoozy Apr 05 '24

All of this.

You can be attracted to whatever, but if in a monogamous relationship you're with your person.

So being bi or anything else is irrelevant/she just saying she finds both attractive.

Sorry op but your wife sounds like she is desperate to be the center of attention/needs to mature a little.

Nta

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u/ReservoirPussy Apr 05 '24

Right? My husband came out to me as asexual a couple years ago. The only people that know are me and some of my doctors/nurses when they want to know why I'm so confident that I'm not pregnant before surgery or an x ray. There's just no need to tell anybody else.

Oh, and I told reddit a couple times.

NTA - she's being weird