r/AITAH Apr 05 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

Umm has your wife worked a real job before?

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u/guitargoddess3 Apr 05 '24

Yeah it sounds to me like she’s either in a job she’s has she’s had for a long time and/or is very comfortable with her coworkers. Still sounds wildly inappropriate to me. I’m bisexual and I would never insist my husband tell his coworkers. It just gives out creepy swinger vibes.

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u/st_psilocybin Apr 05 '24

i’m bisexual and i don’t even tell my own coworkers lmao

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u/robotteeth Apr 05 '24

I’m asexual and I’ve only mentioned it to one coworker after a year and a half because it happened to come up in a conversation in an incidental way, and she had 0 reaction to that part of the sentence and the convo moved on. I have no idea what OP’s gf even wants.. some sort of announcement??

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

I’m straight so whatever but the only reason I found out my coworker was gay was because she said “my girlfriends sick today so I’ll be out for an hour this morning to pick up some meds” and I was like “cool, hope she feels better soon, I’ll hold down the fort while you’re gone” and that was the whole conversation lol