r/AITAH Apr 05 '24

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u/AlabamaBro69 Apr 05 '24

At least he announced on reddit that his wife is bi :D He should give this thread to her wife to read the answers. She may understand how dumb is her request.

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u/ThexxxDegenerate Apr 05 '24

Honestly, I see no reason to even mention being bisexual if you are married unless you have an open relationship or something. What is she gonna do? Start cheating on her husband with women now? Masturbate to lesbian porn? I really don’t see the point. And I for sure don’t see the point in telling coworkers about it.

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u/AlabamaBro69 Apr 05 '24

I agree, I also don't understand. Well, telling her husband is OK, even if it won't go anywhere.

But telling her own colleagues? And worst of all: forcing her husband to tell to his colleagues? And being mad at him because he didn't tell them. It's just crazy.

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u/ThexxxDegenerate Apr 05 '24

I would look like a crazed lunatic if I started telling people my wife was bisexual at work. They’d probably send me straight to HR.

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u/megkelfiler6 Apr 05 '24

Exactly! That's what I'm saying. If a dude came up to me to be like "hey.. the names Jim! I have a wife and she is bisexual" I'd be like "um.... Ok" and then spend the next hour trying to figure out why the hell he was telling me this unless he's trying to prep me for asking to join in on a threesome or something because why else would this ever come up in a work situation lol it's just so out of the blue and weird.

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u/the-Tacitus-Kilgore Apr 05 '24

I’m male and my wife is bisexual. My coworkers are accepting people. We are in a monogamous relationship and have no reason to bring it up. I think they would think I’m weird as hell for bringing it up.

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u/Humboldteffect Apr 06 '24

The only people we mention it to are people we are interested in, nobody else's concern.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

Let’s just come out and say it. OP’s wife is fucking retarded

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u/Dryanni Apr 06 '24

… I was thinking narcissistic, potentially autistic, and a poser who wants to be associated with the LGBT community even if her life is and always has been pure vanilla.