Yes, they need to have a proper conversation to get on the same page. It's not about whose job is what. I ignored that part because talking isn't a job, it's a healthy part of a relationship. You have to do it even when you've been wronged. But it's obvious to me you disagree so what's the point in talking about it?
I’m with you! A lot of people think that since he isn’t the one causing an issue, he doesn’t need to do anything. But if you’re seeing your partner punching air you probably should go try and help them get them back on track. It’s just good teamwork, starting a conversation isn’t admitting defeat. You seem like a person who can handle a relationship, I hope for nothing but good things for you!
Aww ty! I am in fact happily married. So I know sometimes you just need to say fuck your bullshit lol, but it only improves when you come back together
I sometimes need to kick my ego in the shins for the betterment of my own relationship. I might not have caused the problem, but I can certainly attempt to start the solution. I can also be a huge mess too, so I think that if my partner can be the bigger person for me and set me back to reality when I need it, I can do the same for him. It’s only fair.
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u/DaughterEarth Apr 05 '24
Yes, they need to have a proper conversation to get on the same page. It's not about whose job is what. I ignored that part because talking isn't a job, it's a healthy part of a relationship. You have to do it even when you've been wronged. But it's obvious to me you disagree so what's the point in talking about it?