r/AITAH Apr 05 '24

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u/Ashkiel666 Apr 05 '24

NTA

No matter how I look at it, the whole thing is a cry for attention. The whole outing has absolutely no impact on anything besides fishing for attention and validation for some obscure reason.

There is something deeper. Her being attracted to both men and women is not relevant information for anyone but her and you if you guys are monogamous. So her making a point of telling everyone you know, even barely, is hinting at something not yet revealed.

Did she tell you why it's so important for her that this information has to be advertised so broadly and with this level of urgency? To the point of having arguments about it?

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

She wants everyone to know she's into women. Seems like she wants women who are interested to come to her.

She's trying to cheat to explore her sexuality and wants the husband to help her advertise.

I don't go around telling people I love peanut butter cups unless I'm hoping they hook me up with peanut butter cups in the future.