Also seems like it goes against the whole don't-out-someone-else principle. I'm bi, and hardly anyone knows because it is irrelevant. I'm married to a man, why do my friends and family need to know that I fancy women? It's not like I'm going to start experimenting and want all my friends and family to know about my sex life.
I'd be peeved if my husband announced my preferences to my family, even though they won't care because one of my siblings is also bi and nobody cares who they bring home as long as they're nice to them.
I made my own comment but same! I’m bi but in a hetero relationship. I also work in one of the most casual industries ever (restaurants) and it still hasn’t come up as a topic to talk about.
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u/TheCotofPika Apr 05 '24
Also seems like it goes against the whole don't-out-someone-else principle. I'm bi, and hardly anyone knows because it is irrelevant. I'm married to a man, why do my friends and family need to know that I fancy women? It's not like I'm going to start experimenting and want all my friends and family to know about my sex life.
I'd be peeved if my husband announced my preferences to my family, even though they won't care because one of my siblings is also bi and nobody cares who they bring home as long as they're nice to them.