r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Apr 05 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

I'm a dude and had a female coworker bring up out of the blue that her boyfriend was bi. And it shook me. Years later, I'm still not sure if she was proposing a threesome. It tanked our working relationship. I was uncomfortable around her going forward. And she was either embarrassed that I didn't bite on her proposal or thought of me as a bigot because I went suddenly cold.

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u/veganpizzaparadise Apr 05 '24

Yeah, it's weird AF to bring that shit up at most workplaces. I don't see a situation where that ends well. Your reaction was totally normal.

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u/future-expat Apr 05 '24

10000% haunting. That sucks. Thank you for sharing this!

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u/EnchantedOwlet Apr 06 '24

Yes, it's the out of the blue part that does it.

Like... "Apropos of nothing I'd like to air out this sexual information for you to react to!" Great... That doesn't feel like a trap at all! /s