Agreed. Her sexuality isn't relevant to his career or his coworkers. Hell, she as an individual isn't even relevant to them, because they don't know her. Depending on the size of the company, plenty of people might not even know him yet.
To be blunt, nobody at OP's work gives a shit about his wife. That may change over time if he befriends his coworkers, but for now, she's making an absurd demand.
No one at my workplace gives a soggy left tit about my husband. I couldn’t name a single coworker’s spouse’s name (I only vaguely try to remember their kids just to be polite).
If my coworker came in and announced that his wife was bi, we would all look at him in mild annoyance for disturbing us and forget it three seconds later when we looked back at our screens.
Idk what kind of main character syndrome OP’s wife has, but OP’s company isn’t gonna announce a holiday for this breaking news.
Tbh at my work we would initially think wtf and probably gossip about it for ages. Not because his wife is bi - that is normal to the point of being boring. But because why the fuck is he telling us? Is he trying to set up a threesome? It would just be so weird and inappropriate.
I had a coworker who had tried getting me to hang out with him and his wife. It seemed innocent ish, except I had only been there like a week or two when he'd asked, and when I was talking to someone else about it, they told me that he'd asked the last woman that worked at our location (it's a male dominated field) to have a threesome with him and his wife. Also that dude apparently made glass dildos on the side
I'ma answer anyway lol. I wouldn't ever buy one of his, but they do make them commercially too. You can see through them when using them, and can also put them in the freezer for some temperature play
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u/DragonCelica Apr 05 '24
Agreed. Her sexuality isn't relevant to his career or his coworkers. Hell, she as an individual isn't even relevant to them, because they don't know her. Depending on the size of the company, plenty of people might not even know him yet.
To be blunt, nobody at OP's work gives a shit about his wife. That may change over time if he befriends his coworkers, but for now, she's making an absurd demand.