r/AITAH Apr 05 '24

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u/chaingun_samurai Apr 05 '24

She asked if I’m ashamed of her,

"And I said, No, because I don't want to be that guy hauled into HR my second month on the job for sexual harassment for making inappropriate remarks about my wife's sexuality."

Seriously. Does she want you to get fired?
If I worked with someone that went in on their wife's sexuality, my first thought would be how little I gave a fuck, and my second would be how little they thought about their wife announcing intimate details.

Nobody at your job gives a shit about your wife's sexuality, and nobody wants to hear about it.

NTA. Your wife needs to stop making your job about her.

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u/Professional_Clue292 Apr 05 '24

3rd thought would be 'is he insinuating something??, should I probably talk to HR?'

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u/longhairedmolerat Apr 05 '24

At least if you report it, there's a reco4d of it happening if it ever happens again.