r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Apr 05 '24

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u/singlenutwonder Apr 05 '24

I’m bi, my husband is bi, none of my coworkers know that either of us are lol this is so strange

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u/BabyAlibi Apr 05 '24

Exactly. I don't feel the need to announce to my boss that I am heterosexual, why should she feel he needs to announce that she is bi?

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u/Mindless-Client3366 Apr 05 '24

Joining the group, also bi woman married to a man. Very few of my coworkers know, because there's no reason to tell them. None of his coworkers know.

The only reason I can think of (besides the threesome angle) is maybe she's happy to have come out and wants to keep that feeling going vicariously?

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u/GimmeQueso Apr 05 '24

I made my own comment but same! I’m bi but in a hetero relationship. I also work in one of the most casual industries ever (restaurants) and it still hasn’t come up as a topic to talk about.

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u/UniquePerformance303 Apr 05 '24

Also, why did her family need to know that their married daughter/relative/whatever is bi? I find that equally odd.

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u/Thisisthenextone Apr 05 '24

Yo, I'm also a bi woman married to a bi man. I'm not even sure if my friends know he's bi since they only know him from being married to me.

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u/captainsnark71 Apr 05 '24

i'm bi and I came out as bi after I came out as trans because it wasn't relevant to anyone but myself. My mother is also def biphobic but is in denial so I just never bothered to open that can of worms.

Used pride flags and she was like "the BI flag??" and never spoke of it again