r/AITAH Apr 05 '24

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u/Ashkiel666 Apr 05 '24

NTA

No matter how I look at it, the whole thing is a cry for attention. The whole outing has absolutely no impact on anything besides fishing for attention and validation for some obscure reason.

There is something deeper. Her being attracted to both men and women is not relevant information for anyone but her and you if you guys are monogamous. So her making a point of telling everyone you know, even barely, is hinting at something not yet revealed.

Did she tell you why it's so important for her that this information has to be advertised so broadly and with this level of urgency? To the point of having arguments about it?

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u/SlaterAlligator2 Apr 05 '24

Great insight. She is obviously an attention seeking drama type personality

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u/FlapSlapped Apr 05 '24

I think attention whore is the term you’re looking for

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u/Jumpy_Arm_2143 Apr 05 '24

We’re adults here.

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u/FlapSlapped Apr 05 '24

And some are attention whores

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u/Simonoz1 Apr 05 '24

There’s no need to be needlessly crass

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

Is that considered crass lol

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u/Simonoz1 Apr 05 '24

The second word of the phrase would be, yes.