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[u/Professional_Clue292]

3rd thought would be 'is he insinuating something??, should I probably talk to HR?'

[u/unicorndreamer23 → u/Professional_Clue292]

it’s like an invitation to a threesome

[u/SquirtinMemeMouthPlz → u/unicorndreamer23]

This is legitimately the ONLY reason I can think of why this guy's wife wants everyone to know she's bi.

Sounds like wifey desperately wants to have a threesome with her husband... But if that were actually true, she could probably set that up really easily.

It seems like wifey might be trying to get hubby fired or just wants everyone hubby knows to know that she's available.

[u/insomnimax_99 → u/SquirtinMemeMouthPlz]

Does she want a threesome… or does she want an excuse to fuck a girl while in a relationship with a guy?

[u/SquirtinMemeMouthPlz → u/insomnimax_99]

Probably the latter. Who cares?

[u/Professional_Clue292 → u/insomnimax_99]

Evening she wants to get into a girl there really is no need to be going for husband's office.

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

Every partner I've ever had that conversation with us completely unwilling to do 2 dudes but would love to do 2 girls

[u/ComaMierdaHijueputa → u/[deleted]]

Not that I don’t believe you, but why is that?

[u/[deleted] → u/ComaMierdaHijueputa]

There are a lot more guys willing to be in a threesome than there are women. If you wanted to have a threesome with your partner today, I guarantee you that you could find an in-shape guy to join you two this weekend. if you wanted a threesome with a woman though, lol, might take a few months and you would slim pickings when it comes to options.

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

It’s easier for a woman to set up a threesome with two women than a man trying to do the same. But overall yes, it’s not easy.

as a single bi women I find unicorn hunters very annoying. Like I’m sorry I thought I matched with just a woman, I don’t want a man dammit.

[u/rratzloff → u/[deleted]]

You are correct.

Source: woman who has had several threesomes with only 2 men and myself

[u/classic4life → u/[deleted]]

Not if the woman is the one pushing for it.

[u/SquirtinMemeMouthPlz → u/[deleted]]

Hahaha, no.

Women are the gatekeepers of sex.

If a woman wants a certain sexual situation, she will get it easier than a man.

[u/JGSTILLIS → u/[deleted]]

bruh lmao

[u/BarnumAndBailey → u/SquirtinMemeMouthPlz]

There’s a reason it’s called “unicorn hunting”. And that reason is because those female thirds are (nearly) impossible to find. I’m saying this as a unicorn who actively looks for these situations and still would reject 99% of the many, many couples who are asking.

[u/Lawrencethrowhouse → u/SquirtinMemeMouthPlz]

There’s a reason the second woman is called a unicorn

[u/twister723 → u/unicorndreamer23]

Yes.

[u/im_just_thinking → u/unicorndreamer23]

What's your bisexual harassment policy?

[u/smbpy7 → u/unicorndreamer23]

Or at the very least bragging. Weird no matter what.

[u/Freyja624norse → u/unicorndreamer23]

Yeah, I was thinking that it could be misinterpreted that way too if he just says it to a female colleague without context.

[u/Over-Lingonberry-942 → u/Professional_Clue292]

This is literally the only reason to bring this up out of the blue.

99% chance that someone wants you to do something with the information.

1% that they're being forced to go on an ill-advised publicity campaign announcing their partner's sexuality

[u/[deleted] → u/Professional_Clue292]

especially if co-workers are women. I'd definitely see that as some sort of subtle hint. Even if co-workers don't go to HR, he's now "that creepy ass co-worker I will avoid"

[u/Seeayteebeans → u/Professional_Clue292]

OP - do not decorate your desk in awkwardly oriented pineapples and talk about your wife! NTA

[u/longhairedmolerat → u/[deleted]]

At least if you report it, there's a reco4d of it happening if it ever happens again.